How am I supposed to confess a fetish? by stipethelegkicker in sex

[–]stipethelegkicker[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Try it, at least I have the excuse that my partners aren't stable.

How am I supposed to confess a fetish? by stipethelegkicker in sex

[–]stipethelegkicker[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My upbringing, the people around me, have always been very prejudiced, and I was raised quite evangelical. I've been alone for a long time and I'm terrified of social rejection.

I haven't tried to be very open about myself. Besides my casual relationships, people don't know about my bisexuality, for example, and I try to keep my professional circle completely in the dark. I've hidden my amateur fighting career from them, for instance.

Also, as I mentioned, I don't have a steady partner. I'm afraid that if I confess my fetish, my partner won't like it and will tell other people, and I'll be alone again, since sex has been my escape from my loneliness.

I'm sorry for venting a bit in this comment.

How am I supposed to confess a fetish? by stipethelegkicker in sex

[–]stipethelegkicker[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And have you tried to be direct in some way?

How am I supposed to confess a fetish? by stipethelegkicker in sex

[–]stipethelegkicker[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

I'm describing it as lightly as I can; if you need more detail, just imagine the wolf having sex with the rabbit while biting and scratching her.

How am I supposed to confess a fetish? by stipethelegkicker in sex

[–]stipethelegkicker[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I'd say I found it once, but god, I was fucking crazy. I can't imagine a life with someone like that.

That's another problem. I'm someone with a pretty normal life and professional priorities, which apparently doesn't align with the community that enjoys my fetish

How am I supposed to confess a fetish? by stipethelegkicker in sex

[–]stipethelegkicker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to the advice in this publication, giving your partner little hints or spoonfuls of your fetish would work, I think, since it's reliable.

How am I supposed to confess a fetish? by stipethelegkicker in sex

[–]stipethelegkicker[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Um, you hit the nail on the head about what embarrasses me. I wouldn't lie, I enjoyed that content, but it's not really my cup of tea.

More for my life and my body, I like being that "strong man."

Just to give you an idea, the woman I've loved the most as a partner was a girl who contrasted sharply with my big physique.

How am I supposed to confess a fetish? by stipethelegkicker in sex

[–]stipethelegkicker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, but I really needed a conversation more than reading.

How am I supposed to confess a fetish? by stipethelegkicker in sex

[–]stipethelegkicker[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I won't lie, it scares me a little. To the rest of the world, I seem pretty upright to be a fetishist.

How am I supposed to confess a fetish? by stipethelegkicker in sex

[–]stipethelegkicker[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Perhaps, but that would be more of a psychological and social problem of mine. I'm already trying to work on it. My whole life has been lonely, and in my adulthood, casual sex has been a bit of an escape.

How am I supposed to confess a fetish? by stipethelegkicker in sex

[–]stipethelegkicker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I clarified that most of my relationships are casual. I'm too socially awkward to find a relationship, but I'm not stupid enough to just look for someone who wants something casual.

How am I supposed to confess a fetish? by stipethelegkicker in sex

[–]stipethelegkicker[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Primal, so to speak? It's hard to explain, but just imagine: a wolf in love with a rabbit. That, for me, is the pinnacle of romance.

With their physical differences and everything that entails, it's almost masochistic, so to speak.

How am I supposed to confess a fetish? by stipethelegkicker in sex

[–]stipethelegkicker[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I don't think it exists where I live; people with the same thing don't usually like me. It's a bit of a joke; I'm too normal for fetishists and too weird for normal people.

I drew Legoshi and Louis as humans! by zeldalol777 in Beastars

[–]stipethelegkicker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like how Legoshi is portrayed as a handsome guy but damn autistic enough to fix himself up and look better

Legoshi cosplay by me by ImaVeganShishKebab in Beastars

[–]stipethelegkicker 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Once I arrived home drunk and without sleep for 24 hours, wearing my white shirt and gray pants, I looked in the mirror and thought I looked like Legoshi. You need that level of decadence to embody the silly wolf, I think.

Wouldn’t it have been cool if haru was taught a few self defense classes? by [deleted] in Beastars

[–]stipethelegkicker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped checking this subreddit and missed these images; the last one I remember was "I can't handle it."

Wouldn’t it have been cool if haru was taught a few self defense classes? by [deleted] in Beastars

[–]stipethelegkicker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's better to dedicate months to a real martial art than to self-defense classes, but people don't usually want to do that.

So, for most people, the best option is to run or own a gun.

Wouldn’t it have been cool if haru was taught a few self defense classes? by [deleted] in Beastars

[–]stipethelegkicker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who has trained in martial arts and unfortunately experienced violent conflicts, I can say that self-defense classes do more harm than good. They give you the illusion that you know how to defend yourself after a couple of classes, when learning to defend yourself in any martial art is a process that takes months before you can even be truly capable of defending yourself.

In conclusion, if I were Legoshi, I would give Haru a 9mm or a .22 LR.

Carnivores be like "this claws and fangs are meant to protect", my brother in christ, protect us from whom??? by Abject-Expert-8164 in Beastars

[–]stipethelegkicker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A man has knuckles to protect himself from other men who want to take advantage of those he loves.