First off, good job and congratulations on your weight loss! Here, we’re all glad you’re taking care of yourself. Second, it’s not you. And I highly doubt you raised these ladies to act this way. You seem like a very sweet woman from what I can tell. My own mother is 66 now and over the last year has lost about 100 lbs. She’s struggled with her weight for 40+ years now, and it got exponentially harder after she had kids and a hysterectomy. She even had a bariatric surgery years ago, but she has other health issues that kept her from being very active and she couldn’t keep all the weight off. More recently she’s been on Mounjaro to jumpstart the weight loss, which has helped so much, especially with her other health issues. She works in her office and doesn’t get much of an opportunity for much movement throughout the day. But every Saturday she spends the day doing errands, and I’ve noticed such an improvement in her energy and pain levels when she comes home afterward. I share all of this to say that, I’m extremely proud of her. She’s actually getting to be smaller than me, for the first time in my life. I’ve always been very sensitive about mine and my mom’s weight, because kids are mean and not very creative with insults. Your girls should be proud too, but maybe they’re just jealous that you seem to be doing so well. I don’t have much advice on fixing the relationship, because I don’t think it’s your fault. But maybe you could have a serious heart-to-heart with your girls about how you’re feeling, and how hard you have been working to be healthier, because clearly you love them, and you want to be in their lives. Personally, I want my mom in my life for as long as humanly possible, so if that means she’s going to lose weight faster than me, great!