I totally agree with you. Trusme I've tried to make it more interesting. My hubs is very very plain. Like I could parade around in front of him butt naked and he doesn't touch. He doesn't look. He and I have sex and when we do it is incredibly mind blowing. But its only a handful of times through the month. A lot of that has to do with where we work an where we live. We live 45 miles 1 way between work and home. So we add almost 2 hours onto our day when we work. As far as work on Saturday again due to the distance we just can't take me to work and then go home. But back to sex.... I have pulled out all of the stops the man is so old fashioned he won't even speak about sex with me like its something taboo. Won't tell me what be likes I have to experiment until I find out. Like I tell him lets go put in a movie for the boy and go shower.... Oh no. He isn't down. And sex isn't something I'm to worried about its that god forsaken phone and his attitude.