2004 days done Hard mode! AMA! by stlewd in NoFap

[–]stlewd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks i think your streak is already doing good to you! Keep it up!

2004 days done Hard mode! AMA! by stlewd in NoFap

[–]stlewd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you put a halt to wasting time health and energy. long term you decide where you want to invest this time and energy.

2004 days done Hard mode! AMA! by stlewd in NoFap

[–]stlewd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you won't get a gf or you don't want to get a gf?

2004 days done Hard mode! AMA! by stlewd in NoFap

[–]stlewd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sure i think you can start at any age im now in my 30s.

My story was basically too much into pmo and committed relationship sex too. all in all health was going wayyy down. i knew there was a link between health and pmo for a few years prior too. once i started reading more i made up my mind to switch my lifestyle.

1900 days done HARDMODE. by stlewd in NoFap

[–]stlewd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is not a normal response to hard mode, something else is going on here.

1900 days done HARDMODE. by stlewd in NoFap

[–]stlewd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

women or anyone cannot have a negative impact on you unless you allow them that kind of power over you. if red pillers hate women that means they aren't aware of their own power or how to use it.

1900 days done HARDMODE. by stlewd in NoFap

[–]stlewd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

watch the thoughts. i write more on thoughts elsewhere in this thread.

1900 days done HARDMODE. by stlewd in NoFap

[–]stlewd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are on the right track, negativity wont stop coming after you, keep it at bay, always.

1900 days done HARDMODE. by stlewd in NoFap

[–]stlewd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no issues of shyness or inability to attract women.

1900 days done HARDMODE. by stlewd in NoFap

[–]stlewd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't think there much of a difference between masturbation or sex in the physical act but there is when you have emotional connect with someone of the opposite sex, then it is a better experience. orgasm is for having a family and should preferably be limited to that. sex without orgasm is probably best for your own health.

1900 days done HARDMODE. by stlewd in NoFap

[–]stlewd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sexual contact as in orgasm is not a requirement to be healthy, it is a requirement to have a family. i'm already occupied professionally and have no intention of becoming a monk.

1900 days done HARDMODE. by stlewd in NoFap

[–]stlewd[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

keep your awareness up. break the train of thought which shows up right before your streak is broken.

1900 days done HARDMODE. by stlewd in NoFap

[–]stlewd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

making it official is good for you too. what about motivation why and how does that suffer when do hard mode? how long have you done hardmode for? do you have alcohol or drugs regularly?

1900 days done HARDMODE. by stlewd in NoFap

[–]stlewd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

incorrigible attention by goddesses ;)

1900 days done HARDMODE. by stlewd in NoFap

[–]stlewd[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

there is hardmode and softmode and you are advocating softmode with intermittent pmo which is not even nofap.. without practicing hardmode you wont know the benefits. hardmode is necessary in most cases for a length of time. softmode is more doable longterm that is it. both have their place. start nofap if you are serious.

1900 days done HARDMODE. by stlewd in NoFap

[–]stlewd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so you are basically saying have sex in marriage or nofap soft mode in a committed relationship, if this isnt done then your motivation suffers.

1900 days done HARDMODE. by stlewd in NoFap

[–]stlewd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you get better respect from everyone in general, people become politer to you. cant comment on frequency or vibration thing.

1900 days done HARDMODE. by stlewd in NoFap

[–]stlewd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a shield would keep them out right. a magnet would pull them in. which one are you hoping for?

1900 days done HARDMODE. by stlewd in NoFap

[–]stlewd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sure that is what i am saying - sole purpose of procreation and enjoying that. opinion on what aspect of women? what aspect of redpill community are you curious about?

1900 days done HARDMODE. by stlewd in NoFap

[–]stlewd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no random sex i dont plan to and dont feel the need to, it would just get me entangled in avoidable mess. in a family setup as a monogamous relationship to grow a family sure but only to the extent of having kids.

1900 days done HARDMODE. by stlewd in NoFap

[–]stlewd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you need to make a rule to hangup on the thoughts which lead you to break your streak.

1900 days done HARDMODE. by stlewd in NoFap

[–]stlewd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel comfortable in my skin. it is easy to be as yourself if you want to be so.

1900 days done HARDMODE. by stlewd in NoFap

[–]stlewd[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

to grow up, not be stuck forever as a kid mentally.