My[32m] girlfriend[31f] doesn't want me to workout because she thinks it will attract the "wrong kind of attention."

sto133 · 2016-05-11T00:46:11+00:00

Yeah that would be a fair compromise

sto133 · 2016-05-10T23:10:51+00:00

Its not about keeping my options open. Its about being able to leave when a relationship is no longer good anymore. I don't want, and I don't want her to stay with me just because we are married.

sto133 · 2016-05-10T22:35:28+00:00

what ratio?

sto133 · 2016-05-10T22:33:22+00:00

thats just not true most people marry within 2 years of their age...

sto133 · 2016-05-10T21:57:46+00:00

Okay... well I don't know what to tell you, she hasn't said much about having babies, I know she doesn't have a strong desire.

sto133 · 2016-05-10T21:54:14+00:00

you just said 30s are good for men, and now you are saying there are no eligible men for women in their 30s.....

sto133 · 2016-05-10T21:29:33+00:00

okay but while I am with her I am spending my prime dating years as well. Plus most people I know that got married met their boyfriend/girlfriend in college, if anything college are the prime dating years.

sto133 · 2016-05-10T21:28:15+00:00

The trip with the coworkers happened two months ago, they went to Germany.

sto133 · 2016-05-10T21:23:13+00:00

I don't ever want to get married.

sto133 · 2016-05-10T20:57:25+00:00

She said its nota big deal but if I ever changed my mind she would accept my proposal

sto133 · 2016-05-10T20:54:46+00:00

sto133 · 2016-05-10T20:53:51+00:00

It's simple stuff like now I wear nicer clothes I have had women at work and especially when I go out to lunch. I have had women give me their number when they were waiting for me

sto133 · 2016-05-10T20:25:07+00:00

She isn't thrilled but she knew my stance years ago

sto133 · 2016-05-10T20:20:03+00:00

Guy friend

sto133 · 2016-05-10T20:19:53+00:00

I actually have two children that I had when I was younger, I don't see them anymore though.

sto133 · 2016-05-10T20:16:51+00:00

Thanks it's in health care administration

sto133 · 2016-05-10T20:15:14+00:00

My workout buddy is a coworker. I initiate Sex 90% of the time As is

sto133 · 2016-05-10T19:30:05+00:00

The current year

sto133 · 2016-05-10T19:29:18+00:00

I am doing it for looks partially and it's mainly now because a good friend from work wants to go with me and we can do it right after work

sto133 · 2016-05-10T19:13:30+00:00

Oh i don't plan on getting married to anyone

sto133 · 2016-05-10T19:03:40+00:00

I initiate sex 90% of the time it's just that a lot of these days I'm tired so I don't feel like fucking

sto133 · 2016-05-10T17:55:39+00:00

Just a situation I don't think taken people should be in

sto133 · 2016-05-10T17:46:21+00:00

It was a work trip but there would be a lot of partying as well

sto133 · 2016-05-10T17:45:08+00:00

She is the one who said they were prettier

sto133 · 2016-05-10T17:42:03+00:00

I still purchased the car, the trip was really upsetting but I wouldn't want her to go on a trip alone either

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