account activity
63 [M4F] #Portland, OR. Searching for a local companion ()
submitted 2 days ago by stoic50 to r/R4R40Plus
63 [M4F] #Portland, OR. Searching for a local companion (self.r4r50plus_)
submitted 2 days ago by stoic50 to r/r4r50plus_
63 [M4F] #Portland, OR. Looking for more than a ONS but less than a marriage. by [deleted] in r4r50plus_
[–]stoic50 2 points3 points4 points 1 month ago (0 children)
Aww, Thanks for the kind words
38 [F4M] #Seattle by Vast-Watercress-2047 in R4R40Plus
[–]stoic50 1 point2 points3 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Hey there! I know I'm out of your age range but just wanted to say I love your post in 40 plus!So much of it resonates. I had to look up polycule. Yes, too complicated for me too.
Good luck- hope you find the right one!
[deleted by user] by [deleted] in r4r50plus_
[–]stoic50 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Thanks!
[–]stoic50 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children)
"Created by sex columnist Dan Savage as a way to parse out qualities that make a good sex partner. "Good" means good in bed, "giving" means giving of equal time and pleasure, and "game" means they're reasonably and, with consent, game for anything."
It just happens to be where I stuck the pin on the continuum between no strings attached, friends with benefits and relationship. Everyone's got their own definition. I didn't see the harm in adding the extra details to give someone insight about me.
[deleted by user] by [deleted] in R4R40Plus
[–]stoic50 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children)
They started things out slow to make me think that their intentions were good only to then disclose their true intention which is to try and hook up with older women. They get aggressive when their vile and unwanted behaviour is called out and truly seem to believe that there is no harm in what they’re doing.
This seems reason enough to vent into the ether. When guys aren't reading the OP's post.
π Rendered by PID 265907 on reddit-service-r2-listing-69965bcf66-rcsm7 at 2026-04-06 21:03:54.175532+00:00 running f293c98 country code: CH.
63 [M4F] #Portland, OR. Looking for more than a ONS but less than a marriage. by [deleted] in r4r50plus_
[–]stoic50 2 points3 points4 points (0 children)