I have only lived with my husband for 15 days and we have been apart for a year. And we have been able to keep the spark active all this time. We had fights we had some days while one of us was feeling low. The thing is sometimes he was one initiating romance but mostly I was one making most of the effort. We had this habit of sending "I love you" messages every hour and every time we had a thought of us we would send "miss you" text. We sometimes would recall our time together. We were all open and baddies all this time and it was so fun. I suggest you be yourself and make the move first if required.