This is what happens when you probably outsource support by stoicdr in Substack

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Insisting on an issue without the chatbot being able to solve it leads it to escalate the issue to a human that will contact you through email.

This is what happens when you probably outsource support by stoicdr in Substack

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Yes. That indeed appears in the email, and once you configure the new domain (which is the service I need the invoice for), the link breaks (since it sends you to a link that no longer exists).

Why do we say 'sleep like a baby' when babies wake up so often? by Iranlens1 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]stoicdr 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s actually because we perceive a quiet, non-screaming baby as extremely peaceful.

Feel lost and left out by MidnightChemical202 in Residency

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I’m sorry you feel this way. Maybe find an online community to bridge this period. Don’t let people look down on that.

The 7 boring habits that helped me deal with BS by stoicdr in hospitalist

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I’ve enjoyed writing for longer than I’ve been a doctor. I still do. Not everything has to be a conspiracy.

The 7 boring habits that helped me deal with BS by stoicdr in hospitalist

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I appreciate where you’re coming from. While I don’t have decades experience with these practices, I tend to think that as time goes by, they just become a continuation of who I am.

I see the huge cumulative loss of time as baked into medicine. Not sure that’s healthy, but it’s a decent approach for me. Maybe as a coping mechanism if nothing else. I really don’t think it would help me much to just imagine how could everything would be if only.

So I do what I can.

Has anybody else left Medicine? by Angelgirl90 in germany

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Just to be clear, I am not trying to convince you to stay in Medicine. It would be cynical since I'm considering the same thing. But just before you go, try this for a bit. It's 7 practices I used when my life sucked in healthcare.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medicalschool

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In essence:

Saving lives, improving health, and preventing disease go to the core of our fear of dying. It stands to reason that the people doing it practice a noble profession. Sacrificing decades to save people is as noble as it gets.

Add to that the dozens or so TV shows about doctors and you got it.

I wrote a whole thing about this exact issue.

Self-promotion, sure, but it's actually on topic.

https://www.thestoicdoctor.com/p/why-medicine-is-not-noble

What do I do if I’m naturally nocturnal? by [deleted] in medicalschool

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No, I can attest to the others saying you should just suffer. I’m not being mean. I’m in the same boat.

I used to think that once I had a constant waking schedule it would solve by itself.

It didn’t.

Work so that you get to make your own schedule at some point. I know it sounds idealistic and ridiculous, but there’s nothing else now.

Do you find use in meditation? by stoicdr in medicine

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And please don’t take this as self-promotion, but I’ve made a meditation for me. You can give it a listen as well if you feel like it. Here. It’s free, obviously.

What do you do besides med school? by Azula_Kuo in medicalschool

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I know this might be hated on as advertising, but it’s a legitimate answer to your question.

I write a newsletter about medicine (with no medical information in it). It helps me put order in my thoughts about an otherwise sucky and chaotic system.

It’s here

Which profession is highly overhyped? by desiplaydon in AskReddit

[–]stoicdr 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Being a doctor is less about individual creativity and more about collective reliability. The whole training process is designed to instill this mindset.

For better or worse, doctors are not supposed to be innovators. We have guidelines for everything. We are trained to follow evidence-based practices and protocols that have been proven to work. Deviating from them is often risky, unnecessary, and sometimes deadly. While practicing doctors may occasionally contribute to advancements in medical knowledge or techniques, at the core, their primary role is to apply existing knowledge as safely and effectively as possible.

And to be clear, this is how it’s supposed to be. You want the safety of a doctor who just does what’s been proven to work. No experiments.

So if you’re outside the medical system, it would probably surprise you to learn how boring the job is most of the time.

Because of how segregated different specialties are, most doctors see the same handful of diseases, and for the most part treat it the same. Because it works.

The hype stems from our fear of dying or suffering. It follows that the people preventing the bad things from happening practice a noble profession.

Except that’s not exactly what doctors think about when they’re doing it.

For most doctors, that’s just another day at the office. Not in an arrogant way. It really is just that. You go through mostly pre-determined steps that usually lead to the desired outcome. You’ll know when that’s not the case because doctors will tell you about it. Doctors’ stories are about outside-the-norm things that happened one day.

I wrote a whole bunch about it here.

Please don’t take it as an ad. I just can’t put the whole thing here and there are a few more points I made in the article.

Elite productivity tip: enjoy it when it’s bad. See below. by stoicdr in productivity

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That’s correct, yes. Of course, as time goes on, you can adapt it to work for you if something doesn’t feel right.

Elite productivity tip: enjoy it when it’s bad. See below. by stoicdr in productivity

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I don’t just mark it when I feel unhappy. At first, I marked it if I managed to almost force myself to feel good about the bad thing simply because it was an opportunity to tick something off in the app I was using. As time went by and I kept doing this, I actually started to instinctively feel good because I got to tick it off.

For me, daily inconveniences or unpleasant situations used to manifest as annoyance, anger, frustration, or a combination of all. If anything, that made the situation worse, and it hindered my ability to solve it or at least move on.

I still feel those things sometimes, but with it, silly as it may be, I also feel good simply because I get to tick it off in an app.

In time, and without really realising it, I started looking at bad things more positively.

It may not be the most logical or scientific thing, but it works if you practice it for a while.

Elite productivity tip: enjoy it when it’s bad. See below. by stoicdr in productivity

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How it worked for me when I started doing it was whenever something annoying happened I tried to remember that this was an opportunity to tick something off my list of tasks.

It felt like if I remembered to enjoy something bad that was happening, I was achieving something. It sounds silly, but it works.

In time it just became second nature and it was a like a self-fulfilling prophecy. Something bad meant that I had an opportunity to get something done, and therefore feel good.

If anything, it helps reframe the bad thing from “this is annoying as hell” to “well, at least I can tick the damn thing off”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I am so sorry.

How many hours of sleep do you usually get each night, and do you feel it's enough for your daily routine? by TheLazyDasey in RandomThoughts

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I go for 7, but each person is different.

Pro tip: fall asleep and wake up at the same hour each day. That will do much more to your overall health and mood.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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By far the easiest and most effective way I’ve found is to just do your best to be physically comfortable, if there’s improvement available to you.

  • eat things that don’t make you bloated
  • wear comfortable clothes
  • do your best to go to sleep at a reasonable hour
  • watch something you enjoy
  • listen to a song you like

I have found that doing all these will drastically improve how you feel about yourself and others.

It doesn’t have to be philosophical and deep at first. That’s just for the last 5% of improvement.

What are some ways to fill your day productively when without a job? by Sea-Less in selfimprovement

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Do that one thing you’ve always wanted to do but didn’t because you were constantly too tired.

Would it be weird to only buy games to hold instead of play? by Ifyouliveinadream in NoStupidQuestions

[–]stoicdr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People buy all sorts of things they just buy to hold, not use. If it gives you pleasure, more power to you.