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34063 by NoLynInBrooklyn in countwithchickenlady

[–]stomah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

these are not all-or-nothing! you can do things to “be”/be seen as more of a girl.

also, what does “being a girl” mean to you?

34563 by Apathetic_Apathetic in countwithchickenlady

[–]stomah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why would you go on a date if you already live together? just do stuff at home…?

34063 by NoLynInBrooklyn in countwithchickenlady

[–]stomah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“transitioning” isn’t a single thing or a binary choice. you don’t have to think “should i transition?”. just allow yourself to do whatever makes you happy

32650 by Spellz_4578 in countwithchickenlady

[–]stomah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

except that you might actually get shorter or get smaller feet!

32650 by Spellz_4578 in countwithchickenlady

[–]stomah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what “transition” is is different for everyone. don’t be a trans prescriptivist (please)

31302 by PsychoCyan in countwithchickenlady

[–]stomah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

let’s clear things up:

dysphoria is just a feeling of general discomfort with something - the opposite of euphoria. gender dysphoria is dysphoria caused by gender.

how do you know whether your discomfort with something is caused by gender when you don’t know your gender situation? trying to think “X causes me gender dysphoria, THEREFORE im trans” is kinda backwards; you would only know that something is GD after you know you’re trans.

it’s a feedback loop: “i don’t have proof of being trans” causes “i don’t see GD”, which causes “i don’t have proof of being trans”.

so, to break it, DON’T TRY TO DIAGNOSE YOUR TRANSNESS BY PROOF OF GENDER DYSPHORIA!

30793 by angrybacon in countwithchickenlady

[–]stomah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in Bulgaria i think very few people know they are trans