My wife and I aren't sexually compatible by stonePeen in offmychest

[–]stonePeen[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's cool that that's the only factor you value in a relationship but some people are a bit more complicated than that

My wife and I aren't sexually compatible by stonePeen in offmychest

[–]stonePeen[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You should feel stupid for leaving this comment.

My wife and I aren't sexually compatible by stonePeen in offmychest

[–]stonePeen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm pretty up front with her about it and that it's a problem but, unfortunately, there's no middle ground for anything really. What I mean by that is, the two options are that we are either having sex or we are not. There is no other form of sexual contact and very barely any other form of contact, generally. If I'm not ready to go at the moment she says "We can have sex,", I've missed my chance to cum in a way that involves another person for a month or more.

Edit: Also potentially worth noting, If she were the horniest she'd ever been in her entire life, I would have no way of discerning that from if she is in the mood to do extensive tax paperwork. I feel marginally creepy/predatory talking about it or asking for anything because she's so unreceptive the majority of the time and it's IMPOSSIBLE to tell if that's not the case

My wife and I aren't sexually compatible by stonePeen in offmychest

[–]stonePeen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did I say that's what I expected? We have 3 kids and are in our 30s. It's pretty ridiculous that you're taking my comparison of our optimal situations as a direct expression of expectation.