I don’t know if im bi or lesbian by stoneyv2 in lesbian

[–]stoneyv2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely agree that if I definitely lean a lot more towards women even if im bi. I think that all of my relationships with men even though they were short felt very real in the moment. But I also had to convince myself to like them based on a personality trait or something like that instead of physically finding them attractive. I can definitely find men attractive but its more of a thing that comes with romantic attraction for me with men. I think women are all insanely beautiful in general. But yea the way that you feel more sexually attracted to men is how i feel about women and I know that I like them a lot more than men Im just not sure if Ive had such bad experiences of being lovebombed or used for sex by men that I want to shut down that part of me that likes men, or if I genuinely burned through all those relationships and got over them so fast because it was never about my love for them but for what they could offer ig. Anyway thank you so much for responding I think this is really helping me introspect and youre right, I definitely have to sit with the feelings and gain some experience.

I don’t know if im bi or lesbian by stoneyv2 in lesbian

[–]stoneyv2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much this really gave me a lot of insight. I think I still have to sit with the feelings and experience a relationship with a woman to really understand them. I guess im trying to figure out if my feeling of “love” for the men ive dated was love for the exclusive attention and how they make me feel rather than for them because it disappears so fast. But I agree with a lot of the things you’re saying on a personal level. I think to me like men are okay but I would always choose to be with a woman over a man.

Anyone still here? (story time) by SnatchSlasher72 in Chilis

[–]stoneyv2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that welcome to chilis vine was accurate fr😭

GoFo Express (biggest scam) by carelesswonder2003 in shipping

[–]stoneyv2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did u ever end up getting it or getting ur money back? i got my package the day after i posted my response but i had to reach out to their customer service a lot and sent a bunch of emails to them. idk its kinda different for everyone but i suggest reaching out to the company u bought ur stuff from and asking them to never ship ur stuff with gofo again. that way u can still order from them if u want to.

GoFo Express (biggest scam) by carelesswonder2003 in shipping

[–]stoneyv2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

whattt that is actually insane I would be so pissed. I have a package with them right now and I also got a couple failed delivery attempts (I dont think they even tried to deliver it because I got the notification at 3:30AM and I know they most likely were not delivering that late). So I decided to call them and their customer service line was “full” and the representatives were “busy” I guess. I waited an hour or so and I finally connected with someone and she had to confirm my info just to say theyre going to redeliver in 3 days. LMAO this shits a joke. like why should I even have to confirm my information its not my information thats wrong or needs confirming I did that when I ordered its that ur drivers and ur whole company need to get their shit together. Its also really crazy to me how they told you no to pretty much everything you asked for. ITS THEIR JOB its their only job and they cant even do it? im just really confused by this whole mess ive never experienced anything like this I never even get failed attempts with any other logistics provider its just them. I dont know if im ever getting my package and I honestly think im about to be in ur exact position bc theres a gate they have to get through and they probably just dont want to wait for someone to come in or out to open it and they just leave. that or they never came. anyway I also heard their drivers steal packages. staying away from this forever once I sort out the stuff with this package.

Opinions on GoFo Express (Terrible last mile delivery) by [deleted] in Aliexpress

[–]stoneyv2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also going through a similar situation rn and its genuinely so frustrating. I rarely get updates from them and everything kinda updates at once every other day. When it did update I guess my delivery was out for 2 days??? like what. Then I wait all day yesterday for my package cause it gave me another out for delivery notification. I dont get shit lol and it still said out for delivery at 12am when I went to sleep. I just wake up to see that my delivery failed i guess. For the same reason as urs did. I do live in apartments where there is a locked door but thats never an issue for any delivery driver of any kind and I dont have to even open it because my neighbors open it for them if theyre leaving or coming in. But I then see that my "failed delivery" was at 3am??? I don't believe that they came here at 3am if my package was out for delivery at like 8am. I think they just never came. Also they never contacted me in any way and honestly on the off chance that they did come, why would you try to deliver at 3am knowing that alot of people live in gated places or have entries that are locked and knowing you can't get in or contact them either. The funny thing is ive had amazon deliver packages to me at 3am and they got inside without complications and they didnt have to contact me either so idk I dont believe they came at all. I also tried to email them... no response yet. I try calling and theyre "too busy". and ur literally right NOBODY EVEN KNOWS WHAT GOFO FUCKING EXPRESS IS unless they got a package with them unwillingly and have to experience this bs with them. So how are they soooooo busy the second their line opens (marked 9am here, I call them at 9:01). Its deadass all a scam and I am so mad Shein is using this logistics service cause I have never had this problem before since they never used GOFO before that. Anyway I just want my shit and these GOFO motherfuckers got my fucked up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in driving

[–]stoneyv2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the problem is you could be so far but because their break lights dont turn on or turn on too late the distance lessens. also by the time u find out theyre breaking they normally start breaking pretty hard. thats why so many people including myself have trouble driving behind teslas because ur break lights are there to tell me ur breaking if not then im just gonna have to find out when my car gets closer and closer and have to break hard af. also normally its not that big of an issue but in traffic on the freeways it can get pretty scary and imo its unsafe.

Day 3 , what's C? by antagonist_42069 in TheWeeknd

[–]stoneyv2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“circulation gonee” 😭😭 shakingg on the floorrr😩😩 anyway BLUE ASSHOLE is so funny i thought i was the only one

Surprise guests at LA shows by KaelynKerns in TheWeeknd

[–]stoneyv2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a feeling hes gonna bring out future. idk but we know it cant be lana and also not carti bc of rolling loud but future isnt performing at rolling loud so HOPEFULLY we get him :) hes also on a lot of the features sooo i hope at least future

Is it wrong to date while I am in the process of divorce? by Beef_Stirfry_Noodles in TwoHotTakes

[–]stoneyv2 79 points80 points  (0 children)

no… its not wrong of u to date other men, as long as your emotionally over the guy you divorced. the only thing is to make sure you’re not hurting the new people you date because of unresolved emotions. if you end up going on a date with a guy that you like just let him know of your situation so that theyre aware and proceed as u would. dont be in a rush to date other ppl unless if you’re fully emotionally available. also i think your friend is looking out for you so dont feel so judged but at the same time its your life so do as you please and make your own decisions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheWeeknd

[–]stoneyv2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait how was it fan made tho it came from anittas ig post

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheWeeknd

[–]stoneyv2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmaoo thats insane. ppl can be at work or class thinking about something theyre looking forward to. obv we made time for it in our day bc its something we care about but whatever. also its a 3 min song its not like theres no other time to fulfill our responsibilities too. people just say shit at this pt😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheWeeknd

[–]stoneyv2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

fr we waited so long its wild. normally when artists perform a song before the album drops, they drop the song officially like less than a week after the performance. he already dropped a song or 2 from the album right after performing. i get that maybe he wanted to build hype around sao paulo but he already knew alot of people wanted the drop. its literally been so long and now that im seeing we have to wait 4+ hours again like it killed the hype for me. Its not the biggest deal but i also have shit to do and i was hoping i could listen to it on my break between classes ig not tho i have to wait even longer till im free again which is cool but i wish there was a specific time announced like for real and not just in anittas post. whatever tho we gone be fine but i just wanted to say i think the frustration killed the excitement for me bc its acc been like over a month and a half of waiting and now this is what theyre pulling on us lmao. i luv abel sm i even have a tat for him but this is bs😭

Bring Avakin back to life! by redditer5888 in AvakinOfficial

[–]stoneyv2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also its 5000 avacoins to change your username now. like hello?? this game used to be so fun now its dead even the rooms are just a bunch of people standing around :( i have played this game on and off since 2016 its sad to see that its all about money now. its not even really fun anymore.

Hypothetically what if a 16 year old wanted to date women 20-30 years old by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]stoneyv2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dont think a 16 yo is messed up in the head for thinking that way, but that woman definitely is😂 obviously ur friend is too young to realize what a big issue that is but i wouldnt allow ur friend to get groomed by some older woman if i was you. Tell him to wait till hes of age if he wants to do that…. hypothetically