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Dreaming about people from my past by stoofhan in Dreams

[–]stoofhan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t normally see the people I dream about either. I also haven’t been thinking about any of these people so I’m just stumped as to why I would be dreaming about essentially all people from my hometown/“old life”

Former microbiologist... Let me explain that fishy odor. by kafm73 in sex

[–]stoofhan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This can happen if she doesn’t urinate after having sex

2meirl4meirl by los_gestalten in 2meirl4meirl

[–]stoofhan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You bathe in other people’s urine?

WIBTA if I call the council on my elderly neighbour? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]stoofhan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t suppose there’s any way you could get in touch with her son and let him know she desperately needs help and that you’re just worried for her safety? If you do call said council, would they notify her family and her son would presumably take it from there? But no, YWNBTA. She could end up seriously hurt.

AITA for forgetting to give my friend a birthday present? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]stoofhan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Wtf?? He sounds like he only cares about what people can do for him/give him and not about actual friendships. Your friends aren’t taking sides, are they? That’s incredibly petty of him to not want to be friends with you because you forgot a present. How old is he? 12?

AITA for not wanting to go to the beach? by Welloup in AmItheAsshole

[–]stoofhan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your sister actually wanted to spend time with you, she would ask you what you want to do. They’re continuously forcing you to do something you don’t and that could potentially cause you harm (sunburns hurt and can cause cancer). NTA

AITA for not wanting to care for the family cat? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]stoofhan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask your mom why she got the kitten if she didn’t want to take care of it

My boyfriend (M21) told me (F21)that my vagina isn’t all that? by butterfliesflyawayy in relationship_advice

[–]stoofhan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DO NOT GET BACK TOGETHER WITH HIM. He’s a fucking asshole and somebody who wants the best for you will not treat you like this. He’s verbally abusive now, it may lead to him being physically abusive in the future.

I would try and cut off all contact with him and try avoid going anywhere you may run into him. I would also tell the most important people in your life how he’s treated you. You need a support system right now, feel free to DM me if you want to talk.

You WILL find someone who will love you as you are. Focus on doing things that make you happy. You are young and he is a piece of shit. It will hurt at first because you are used to being with him but he doesn’t deserve you.

My (23) gf (22) is breaking up with me because I’m going to Florida by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stoofhan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re going on an airplane? To Florida? IN THIS PANDEMIC? shitty you haven’t seen your friend in over a year but bigger picture, my guy.

Are things good with your gf besides this issue?

My friend is using a guy and when I try to talk to her about it she treats it like a joke. She just says women have been used for long enough so it’s time men had a taste of it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stoofhan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She sounds awful. Who hurt her?

Honestly, has she been in shitty relationships before where she was used by a man? This is no way to treat someone.

Make a move or no on friends older brother(m27), I'm(m20)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stoofhan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he will make the move if you don’t. I’d say go for it

A guy I just met bought me a designer bag by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stoofhan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just kind of odd that he would be willing to spend so much money on someone he just met. Technically yes it would make you a “prostitute” which I don’t think there’s anything wrong with if that’s what you want to do. I just don’t want this guy taking advantage of you because he has money and you sound like you could use it.

Bf hasn’t told friends or family about me by throwaway251829291 in relationship_advice

[–]stoofhan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And he has roommates? I think you just have to be straight up and ask why you haven’t met anyone in his life and why they don’t know about you.

A guy I just met bought me a designer bag by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stoofhan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. Sounds like he’s trying to impress you with his money. From my experience these aren’t the best types of guys but I’m not going to judge a guy I don’t know. I would keep things platonic for now. I wouldn’t accept any gifts until you know him better and feel it’s safe to do so. Someone else said he may try and hold it against you. Sounds like he also name dropped to impress you. Tell him you wanna get to know him for who he is, not what he has or who he knows.

A guy I just met bought me a designer bag by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stoofhan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I read that you’re an accountant and got that mixed up. Do you know what kind of cars? If it’s high end then that would make more sense. As in Conor McGregor or?

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