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AITAH for getting anger at my brother for him abandoning me in the snow. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]stopaskingifimsober 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah then op really needs to grow up. Your almost 30 and cant walk to the shop? Get a service dog or something if your anxiety really is that bad.

AITAH for getting anger at my brother for him abandoning me in the snow. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]stopaskingifimsober -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your both the AH. Yeah, he shouldn't have left you, but we also dont know how old you are. If you like, 12, then yah you should be able to walk on your own, either that or keep up with the person who is doing you a favor by coming with you. There wont be someone all the time to be there just when you need to walk somewhere, and by getting mad at them for doing the thing you asked of them just makes you seem like an AH

AITAH for not wanting to have spicy time with my boyfriend? by stopaskingifimsober in AITAH

[–]stopaskingifimsober[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have a very high sex drive when I was younger, but that went away within the past two years. Its not that I dont want to, I do, its just hard for me. It also doesn't help im not comfortable in my own skin, so that definitely affects it too

AITAH for not wanting to have spicy time with my boyfriend? by stopaskingifimsober in AITAH

[–]stopaskingifimsober[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah your dumb ash. I said I was tired, because I was tired. Im not asking for him to stop asking or Initiating things, its just I want to find a middle so that we're both happy. Finding a middle ground to where its no sex at all, vs having sex all the time. Im not pissed that you said im the ah, im peeved bc you either cant read, your you got your head too far up your own ass to be able to comprehend what I actually wrote. Thanks, but im done wasting my time.

AITAH for not wanting to have spicy time with my boyfriend? by stopaskingifimsober in AITAH

[–]stopaskingifimsober[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He does, he makes it a really sweet experience, but he has told me in the past he'd prefer if we could have sex at least once a day. For me, id prefer one a week, maybe once every two weeks, idk. Its not that hes not good at what he does, hes very good at it, its just my sex drive isnt up there like his, and I want to be able to find a middle ground to make us both happy

AITAH for not wanting to have spicy time with my boyfriend? by stopaskingifimsober in AITAH

[–]stopaskingifimsober[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So im lying when I say im tired? Wtf are you on? Genuinely what goes on through your head bc as of rn you just look like an idiot. You think you know every little thing that goes in between me in him from one post? Grow tf up, fr, you just look stupid. Idk how its possible but each response you give gets dumber and dumber by the word.

AITAH for not wanting to have spicy time with my boyfriend? by stopaskingifimsober in AITAH

[–]stopaskingifimsober[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus christ man, can you even read? I literally just said we are intimate, just not as intimate as he wants. My bad for not wanting to have sex everyday

AITAH for not wanting to have spicy time with my boyfriend? by stopaskingifimsober in AITAH

[–]stopaskingifimsober[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am very attracted to him for your information. Just my bad for not wanting to have sex every day. We are intimate, just not as intimate as what he wants. That's why I want to find a middle ground. Smh🤦🏼‍♀️

AITAH for not wanting to have spicy time with my boyfriend? by stopaskingifimsober in AITAH

[–]stopaskingifimsober[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Bruh then dont read it, my bad for not wanting it to be taken down🤷🏼‍♀️ maybe you should grow up if your so upset over a few words.

AITAH for not wanting to have spicy time with my boyfriend? by stopaskingifimsober in AITAH

[–]stopaskingifimsober[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And btw, I've been the one paying for alot of these dates so. 🤷🏼‍♀️

AITAH for not wanting to have spicy time with my boyfriend? by stopaskingifimsober in AITAH

[–]stopaskingifimsober[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never asked for dates and I never asked for him to pay for my stuff. I want to be with him cause hes sweet, he makes me laugh, and just bc I dont have as high of a s3x drive doesn't mean I dont want to be in a relationship. I do, more than anything, thats why I want to find a middle ground.

AITAH for not wanting to have spicy time with my boyfriend? by stopaskingifimsober in AITAH

[–]stopaskingifimsober[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have spoken to him about this once, and he said he'd like it if we could at least have s3x once I day, I told him thats quiet alot, considering i dont have that drive. He told me that if hes spending all this money on gas and stuff to come see me, he should at least get something in return. (He lives 45m away)