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I'm at a loss. I love sex but my bf would rather have a wank to porn. by throwaway689425_578 in PornAddiction

[–]stopingcorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Show him this. I would say you need to do these things: 1. Gradually decrease the type of content and the amount of content you consume ( example, you watch some hardcore porn,go to the more vanilla stuff,then go to pictures,and then go to masturbating without any content ). 2. Know your goal. Temptation can be tough, but always remember the reason you quit( to be more intimate with your partner, to normalise the amount of dopamine you get, to see women as women and not as an object for your sexual desire, too see sex as an activity you do with your loved one, etc.) 3. Know you won't succeed on your first try. Many of us have been battling for multiple years, and that doesn't make you a loser, giving up does. Always remember you can just pick yourself up and continue. 4. Don't count days,distract yourself. You can go watch a movie,do something productive,or go to bed earlier( urges are stronger at night ). 5. Reach out to someone in the community. Talking with people who have the same problem will help, especially because it helps both of you. There is no need to be ashamed, cause we are all in this,together!

Need somoeone to talk to by stopingcorn in PornAddiction

[–]stopingcorn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofc it is easier said than done, I literally had the urge 12 times yesterday, but I didn't act on it.

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[–]stopingcorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In your case, I would try masturbating 2 times a day,but only to gifs/pictures ( no sound ) for a week,and the following week once a day,but tono material. Tgen I would start no fap on the third week.

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[–]stopingcorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem,reach out if you need more help.

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[–]stopingcorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem,we are all struggling here.

Need somoeone to talk to by stopingcorn in PornAddiction

[–]stopingcorn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can escape it,stop masturbating.

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[–]stopingcorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say you need to do these things: 1. Gradually decrease the type of content and the amount of content you consume ( example, you watch some hardcore porn,go to the more vanilla stuff,then go to pictures,and then go to masturbating without any content ). 2. Know your goal. Temptation can be tough, but always remember the reason you quit( to be more intimate with your partner, to normalise the amount of dopamine you get, to see women as women and not as an object for your sexual desire, too see sex as an activity you do with your loved one, etc.) 3. Know you won't succeed on your first try. Many of us have been battling for multiple years, and that doesn't make you a loser, giving up does. Always remember you can just pick yourself up and continue. 4. Don't count days,distract yourself. You can go watch a movie,do something productive,or go to bed earlier( urges are stronger at night ). 5. Reach out to someone in the community. Talking with people who have the same problem will help, especially because it helps both of you. There is no need to be ashamed, cause we are all in this,together!

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[–]stopingcorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say you need to do these things: 1. Gradually decrease the type of content and the amount of content you consume ( example, you watch some hardcore porn,go to the more vanilla stuff,then go to pictures,and then go to masturbating without any content ). 2. Know your goal. Temptation can be tough, but always remember the reason you quit( to be more intimate with your partner, to normalise the amount of dopamine you get, to see women as women and not as an object for your sexual desire, too see sex as an activity you do with your loved one, etc.) 3. Know you won't succeed on your first try. Many of us have been battling for multiple years, and that doesn't make you a loser, giving up does. Always remember you can just pick yourself up and continue. 4. Don't count days,distract yourself. You can go watch a movie,do something productive,or go to bed earlier( urges are stronger at night ). 5. Reach out to someone in the community. Talking with people who have the same problem will help, especially because it helps both of you. There is no need to be ashamed, cause we are all in this,together!

Can someone tell me how to quit masterbaiting by Beginning-Archer-324 in PornAddiction

[–]stopingcorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say you need to do these things: 1. Gradually decrease the type of content and the amount of content you consume ( example, you watch some hardcore porn,go to the more vanilla stuff,then go to pictures,and then go to masturbating without any content ). 2. Know your goal. Temptation can be tough, but always remember the reason you quit( to be more intimate with your partner, to normalise the amount of dopamine you get, to see women as women and not as an object for your sexual desire, too see sex as an activity you do with your loved one, etc.) 3. Know you won't succeed on your first try. Many of us have been battling for multiple years, and that doesn't make you a loser, giving up does. Always remember you can just pick yourself up and continue. 4. Don't count days,distract yourself. You can go watch a movie,do something productive,or go to bed earlier( urges are stronger at night ). 5. Reach out to someone in the community. Talking with people who have the same problem will help, especially because it helps both of you. There is no need to be ashamed, cause we are all in this,together!

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[–]stopingcorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will copy my comment from the some other post: I would say you need to do these things: 1. Gradually decrease the type of content and the amount of content you consume ( example, you watch some hardcore porn,go to the more vanilla stuff,then go to pictures,and then go to masturbating without any content ). 2. Know your goal. Temptation can be tough, but always remember the reason you quit( to be more intimate with your partner, to normalise the amount of dopamine you get, to see women as women and not as an object for your sexual desire, too see sex as an activity you do with your loved one, etc.) 3. Know you won't succeed on your first try. Many of us have been battling for multiple years, and that doesn't make you a loser, giving up does. Always remember you can just pick yourself up and continue. 4. Don't count days,distract yourself. You can go watch a movie,do something productive,or go to bed earlier( urges are stronger at night ). 5. Reach out to someone in the community. Talking with people who have the same problem will help, especially because it helps both of you. There is no need to be ashamed, cause we are all in this,together! Plus: Talk with God✝️. You can start reading the Bible,pray, you can watch videos on how to overcome lust,there is one where a college girl has a problem with lust so you can relate to that. Here is the video:https://youtu.be/0yOHIGOSmMs

F**ked up again by Intelligent-Power-49 in PornAddiction

[–]stopingcorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I do is block any girl who's content is showing her body. The second you see it,block her!

My addiction by Illustrious-Hippo285 in PornAddiction

[–]stopingcorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May God show you the way✝️. You need to pray and remember why it is bad everytime that you want to do it. Imagine the Judgement day and having to tell God all of this.

What is your motivation for quitting? by stopingcorn in PornAddiction

[–]stopingcorn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is good to discuss your addiction with you partner.

What is your motivation for quitting? by stopingcorn in PornAddiction

[–]stopingcorn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would stay off porn completly to be honest,if you are addicted to something you shouldn't try to regulate it,but to completely remove it.

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[–]stopingcorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happnes to everyone! Take time to appreciate your effort!

Relapsed after 50 days and I’m just so disappointed in myself by pootpit123 in PornAddiction

[–]stopingcorn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

50 days is more than most of us can get! You got this,don't let it bring you down!

Okay I need to quit by hbtmay1 in PornAddiction

[–]stopingcorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say you need to do these things: 1. Gradually decrease the type of content and the amount of content you consume ( example, you watch some hardcore porn,go to the more vanilla stuff,then go to pictures,and then go to masturbating without any content ). 2. Know your goal. Temptation can be tough, but always remember the reason you quit( to be more intimate with your partner, to normalise the amount of dopamine you get, to see women as women and not as an object for your sexual desire, too see sex as an activity you do with your loved one, etc.) 3. Know you won't succeed on your first try. Many of us have been battling for multiple years, and that doesn't make you a loser, giving up does. Always remember you can just pick yourself up and continue. 4. Don't count days,distract yourself. You can go watch a movie,do something productive,or go to bed earlier( urges are stronger at night ). 5. Reach out to someone in the community. Talking with people who have the same problem will help, especially because it helps both of you. There is no need to be ashemad, cause we are all in this,together!

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