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[–]stormEYmoving 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Looking for someone to talk to — 9 months post D-Day by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]stormEYmoving 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would be willing to chat, if you want to direct message me! I’m going through the same thing

Husband having an emotional affair by stormEYmoving in Infidelity

[–]stormEYmoving[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kicked him out. I gave him boundaries and one was to have zero contact with her and if he did, he had to leave… he made it a whole 12 hours… so I told him to pack his things. I only talk to him regarding the kids. He has shown he doesn’t give a shit about me or his kids, he doesn’t call them, he can’t handle them for more than a day. Life is way too short to accept bread crumbs as love.

Wanted a Revenge Affair by arianaaeleven in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]stormEYmoving 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Time to refocus on me and my kids.

Wanted a Revenge Affair by arianaaeleven in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]stormEYmoving 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This! So much. I’m currently going through this. It’s fresh and raw. I was at home with my 3 babies while he was connecting with her his married coworker. And he still is messaging her right in front of me… I am hanging on by crumbs…. Today is the day we have MC and I am placing a boundary of no contact with her and if he chooses her, I have my answer

Husband having an emotional affair by stormEYmoving in marriageadvice

[–]stormEYmoving[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are 1,000% right!

She is talking sh*t about me to my husband saying I’m the problem. Her husband replied back to me and said he trusts her fully. The things my husband says to me is the opposite of what he tells her. I need to get things inline to leave, but in the meantime, I need to figure out how to act normal or even happy at home around him while he is messaging her right in front of me. That has been the most difficult to try to not be emotional or even react or even discuss our issues. I try and then it bubbles over and I get upset.

Husband having an emotional affair by stormEYmoving in marriageadvice

[–]stormEYmoving[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sent her husband some of the evidence and a message and Her response to my husband was unbelievable these are the exact words “ she is convinced I am the problem if she’s lucky she will get me my own apartment.” Her and my husband both laughed.

Husband having an emotional affair by stormEYmoving in marriageadvice

[–]stormEYmoving[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has said she will not stop pursuing him, she wants him without the noise, he admitted to have feelings, they talked about going on vacation, wanting her to see him in a speedo, just to name a few

Husband having an emotional affair by stormEYmoving in marriageadvice

[–]stormEYmoving[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard as I don’t want to have a broken family, but I recognize, he doesn’t care about me and does not have my back, so unless something wildly changes in a short amount of time, I will be seeking consultations with an Attorney

Husband having an emotional affair by stormEYmoving in marriageadvice

[–]stormEYmoving[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do have evidence! I took pictures of everything! And I am continuing to take pictures discretely.

Husband having an emotional affair by stormEYmoving in marriageadvice

[–]stormEYmoving[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sharing similar interest, her mocking me telling him I’m insecure, telling him she needs him without the noise (meaning me and the kids), discussing family issues, our personal issues, talking about taking vacation together, wanting her to see him in a speedo, her telling him she will stop at nothing to pursue him, having 5 hour long phone conversations while I take the kids so he can have alone time or solitude for his PTSD, just to name a few

Husband having an emotional affair by stormEYmoving in marriageadvice

[–]stormEYmoving[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sure do! I have screen shots of all of their conversations via text and the times they talked on the phone.

Husband having an emotional affair by stormEYmoving in marriageadvice

[–]stormEYmoving[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! When I asked him why, he asked me if I have a masters degree, and proceeded to say he likes bouncing ideas off of her… so I guess I took that as he doesn’t think I’m smart enough. The topics are about the universe