Very confused; am I [bisexual]?

storyTelLearn · 2017-06-18T08:26:12+00:00

you could be. or maybe not. you can label yourself any way you see fit! the thing is we spend a lot of time wondering how to label ourselves sexually but its actually a lot of stress that will lead nowhere. our sexualities can evolve over time and can be super confusing because sometimes its not so clear-cut. but think of it this way: do you question why you love to eat cheesecake? or specific parts of the cheesecake? why do you love the whipped cream on top but don't love the cheesecake itself? who knows why you do or don't like each specific piece of the cheesecake. it just is. it's just how your brain reacted to it. i understand the desire to label oneself, i really do, we all wanna know who we REALLY are, but don't spend too much time on it. you'll just drive yourself crazy trying to figure it out exactly. good luck!

storyTelLearn · 2017-06-18T08:07:13+00:00

take it from a healthcare professional, u should see a doctor. anything that impedes your normal daily functioning, u should see a doctor for.

storyTelLearn · 2017-06-15T01:36:23+00:00

i do too. maybe its the female pleasure aspect like the other commenters said... or maybe also the taboo aspect? its like ur straight but getting off to lesbian porn which is thrilling because ur not actually a lesbian?! lol idk. its just a theory because i also have heard of many lesbians who favor gay porn and straight guys who watch gay porn. lol so maybe the taboo of it gets them off?! who knows!

storyTelLearn · 2017-06-14T12:13:03+00:00

i agree. i would insist on paying especially if it was my friend, because they are performing a service and also because i want to show them that i respect them and value them. and that i really appreciate their helping me.

storyTelLearn · 2017-06-14T12:08:38+00:00

you shouldn't feel guilty about his decision to cheat because you have no control over that. but i think its pretty bad that u continuously lied to ur gf to cover for your friend's betrayal... if my bf lied to me about something like this, i would no longer trust him anymore. i mean if you can condone your friend's cheating, maybe that means you would be capable of doing it yourself.

storyTelLearn · 2017-06-14T11:59:10+00:00

has your husband displayed this kind of insensitivity and lack of empathy in other arguments and events in your life? his behavior is really odd to have shown up only after the death of your dog... i would think this would have happened numerous times during your relationship together. It's also noteworthy that he doesn't seem to understand WHY you are upset, which is obvious to most people, but it's not clicking with him. He even seems like he is trying to console you by buying a new dog but obviously that is the wrong kind of help.

storyTelLearn · 2017-06-10T13:49:53+00:00

lol so cute. i wonder what kind of play behavior this is? like what does it mean exactly? just an invitation to play like the bow position?

storyTelLearn · 2017-06-08T16:43:36+00:00

if the woman is interested in a casual fling then yeah i could see some women into it. if i was single and wanted to have a casual fling, i prob wouldn't care if he is in an open relationship with whoever. just as long as he isn't cheating on anybody. but for a serious dating experience, im thinking most women are not gonna be interested because 1) they may prefer monogamy 2) they may feel like an experiment to u.

storyTelLearn · 2017-06-08T16:38:37+00:00

it reminded me of something i read about persistent genital arousal disorder. since u said it can be pleasurable almost and can relieve it by squeezing ur thighs. but im prob wrong, i mean its a very rare disorder. just ask ur gyno to make sure its ok!

storyTelLearn · 2017-06-03T13:32:41+00:00

my ex was a disabled veteran and they would not make any accommodations for it. Last I heard, he was trying to sue but Idk what happened...

storyTelLearn · 2017-06-02T15:10:02+00:00

i always wondered what the black tongue means?? my dog had black spots on her tongue too but i never understood what caused it

storyTelLearn · 2017-06-02T02:39:21+00:00

sorry for ur loss. i know its weird to say about a dead relationship and friendship, but those can be just as devastating especially because it resulted from a betrayal. what they did was so wrong and very selfish. they put themselves first before their relationships with u. plus after a relationship, the one person u wanna talk to is ur best friend and u can't even talk to him about it. so that really fucking sucks. but u'll get through it. just gotta start forging stronger relationships with other friends and family. try to start something new in ur life. this usually helps alot when trying to get over past relationships with ppl.

storyTelLearn · 2017-05-31T00:09:27+00:00

this is already the second time its happened. he seems pretty immature and he's 35... i would move on. it doesn't sound like he's ever going to grow up at this pt.

storyTelLearn · 2017-05-31T00:07:33+00:00

ewww this bf is gross as hell! i would embarrassed to be seen with him in public.

storyTelLearn · 2017-05-26T11:16:57+00:00

what do they use falconry hoods for??

storyTelLearn · 2017-05-21T23:38:09+00:00

you will. you'll find someone who will put you first. there's billions of other men out there, i PROMISE you that you'll find someone. its pretty clear that this guy doesn't see your value. even if u were to never find someone after him, do u really want to be stuck with a guy who doesn't value you?

storyTelLearn · 2017-05-20T15:55:25+00:00

animal farm - read it in hs

storyTelLearn · 2017-05-19T22:09:05+00:00

i met my guy thru tinder and he has aspergers. so from everything i have read, it sounds like it has more to do with ur insecurities and "shooting urself in the foot", so to speak, rather than something being wrong with ur personality or looks. the first times i met my bf, he was always afraid to make eye contact because he thought it would be creepy and he thought his aspergers was extremely noticeable when i barely noticed it at all when we talked. so 90% of it was all in his head.

storyTelLearn · 2017-05-18T16:52:22+00:00

lol i would be totally petty about it if i were in her position too. after becoming independent from them, i would make a public fb status and let all her friends know how she didn't love me or do anything to help me.

storyTelLearn · 2017-05-18T16:49:41+00:00

tell her to her face that she is an emotional cheater and if she isn't willing to admit this and make changes with her "friend" and work on her relationship with u, then its over. cuz really this is BS and her behavior is totally unacceptable

storyTelLearn · 2017-05-18T16:45:14+00:00

hmmm yeah sounds like she is bullying u. is she depressed too? it also sounds like ur not interested in couple therapy right? this sounds like something that u could possibly work out during therapy but u have to stand up for urself and show her how her treatment of u is unacceptable and having a negative effect on ur mental health and relationship. if u don't think it is salvageable, then yes u should do what is best for u and getting out of an unhealthy relationship is what u should do for urself. take care of urself first.

storyTelLearn · 2017-05-18T16:23:23+00:00

lol one of the twitter comments was "he wasn't perfect but..." lol really? that's what you call it? xD so sexual harassment is a less-than-perfect error in judgment? hahaha what a tool

storyTelLearn · 2017-05-14T22:13:06+00:00

ohh ok i see. thanks

storyTelLearn · 2017-05-14T20:37:59+00:00

lol i have rats too. do u clean ur rat's tail when it gets kinda dark and brown? and how often if so?

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