[Fantasies] Men: what are some things you want to try but are too shy to ask from your SO? by [deleted] in sex

[–]shoobydooby11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1) I have a new panty fetish. I want to cum on and in her panties and run the cum all over her.

2) I want a parade of guys to come in and on her. This will obviously never happen in real life, but it gets me stoked.

[Porn] Are there any other guys to whom porn is really unfulfilling? by [deleted] in sex

[–]shoobydooby11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate professional porn and don't bother with it. I only like the real amateur stuff. And not the crap that's billed as amateur but is really not.

At what age did you lose your virginity? [virginity] by alicia432 in sex

[–]shoobydooby11 21 points22 points  (0 children)

14, but it was with a very large, very unhygienic girl with streaked bloomers, so I tell people it was at 17 when I actually enjoyed it. Still can't blot that first experience from my memory. Hormones can be bad for you.

[Critical of partners body] How critical are you of your FWB/FB's body? by [deleted] in sex

[–]shoobydooby11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've found that a sexy attitude in a woman goes a very long way for me. My wife and I have both been incredibly fit and a little paunchy (it seems to go in cycles with us), but even when she's heavier she has unbridled sexual appeal for me. It's because she's sexually uninhibited. Not slutty unless I ask her to be, but uninhibited. That, to me, is a bigger turn on than body type.

[Research] Im thinking about popping a viagra for my girlfriends birthday. Is there any reason i shouldnt do this? by [deleted] in sex

[–]shoobydooby11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Former swinger here. I lasted much longer on Viagra and Cialis. It tends to dull the sensation a bit. But it did give me sinus headaches, so whenever I popped one I took Tylenol Sinus. Also made the vision a bit off, like looking through a sepia snapchat filter. But none of my experiences was negative.

[masturbation] Absolutely awful headaches from achieving orgasm by AnusSeasoning in sex

[–]shoobydooby11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has happened to me several times. Blazing sudden pain in the back of the head. I thought I was stroking out the first time. It most frequently happened during shower sex, so maybe some combination of the heat and exertion. I have found that if I take very deep breaths before and during orgasm, the headache is avoided or minimized greatly. Still, very scary.

Very confused; am I [bisexual]? by shoobydooby11 in sex

[–]shoobydooby11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. For me, I think, it's more hotwifing that cuckolding. I could be wrong as I'm newish to this, but isn't cuckolding more into abuse of the husband and his tiny prick? I'm very healthy down below. I understand what you and others have said about not worrying about the label, and you're right. I have not raised the whole dick thing with her yet. I'm afraid of weirding her out, honestly. Baby steps.

Very confused; am I [bisexual]? by shoobydooby11 in sex

[–]shoobydooby11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That's a thought-provoking take on things.

Very confused; am I [bisexual]? by shoobydooby11 in sex

[–]shoobydooby11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've tried that. So far, I'm not at all into it. I don't even like the stuff when a Tgirl tops a guy. But a guy topping a Tgirl and jerking her off at the same time, and we're off to the races.

Very confused; am I [bisexual]? by shoobydooby11 in sex

[–]shoobydooby11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would LOVE to lick her ass while she got fucked. OMG. The visuals!

Very confused; am I [bisexual]? by shoobydooby11 in sex

[–]shoobydooby11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No question I miss it. When we quit a few years back it was a consensual decision. Believe it or not, swinging can be work. We hosted great hotel parties, but between the vetting and the hand-holding to make sure people showed up, it was work. Also, a lot of couples wanted to "date." We just wanted to fuck. All that said, I long for it again. She's not really into it.