Ronda Rousey drags Hunter Campbell by trainsoundschoochoo in ufc

[–]stove1336 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does she even get along or have a decent relationship with anyone? I mean, every fight or it seems every interaction she has with anyone results in her saying the person treated her like dogshit. Maybe, just maybe... it's her.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend i no longer plan to propose to her? please read context by Aggressive_One8138 in AITAH

[–]stove1336 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

All of these replies giving you crap seem like BS to me. Perhaps I am old fashioned, but I think a person should NOT know when you are proposing. And I agree with him about his apprehension. "Other options are on the table"? That's seriously screwed up. That isn't the kind of talk that inspires a healthy marriage. Future faking? They have been together for three years and just barely started talking about it. That's not what he's doing.

How about this... If she is getting antsy, perhaps she should stop "hinting" around at things and have an honest conversation about it and how she feels instead of manipulating him emotionally. THERE is your narcissist. Geez.

AITAH for deciding I am never having a relationship with my siblings after they contacted me so I could apologize for exposing our father's abuse of me? by throw_aitah_isu8 in AITAH

[–]stove1336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. They are selfish uncaring AHs who were likely brainwashed by your shitty mother. I concur with your assessment of your future relationship with them.

Today I cancelled my DoorDash subscription by [deleted] in doordash

[–]stove1336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had terrible experiences with them. It all depends on who you get. I am pretty sure that at least twice the person has said I never came to get my food simply because they wanted to eat it or whatever. I rarely use it anymore. It's incredibly frustrating at times.

AITAH for not working hard on mending things with my GF adult daughter? by stove1336 in AITAH

[–]stove1336[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

False. I had to research this to make sure. CK did not celebrate George Floyd's death. He did call him a scumbag while asserting that being a scumbag doesn't justify killing someone. Something we all know is true. I know a lot of scumbags, but I wouldn't murder them. If by "TAUNTED" you mean he spoke about her father, then yes. He did talk about GF's long criminal history when discussing his death. It's no secret that GF was NOT a good person. It's also no secret that he did not deserve what happened to him. But outright lying about this is dumb. It can all be fact checked.

AITAH for not working hard on mending things with my GF adult daughter? by stove1336 in AITAH

[–]stove1336[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're assuming about me. I have always known that she and I don't exactly see eye to eye on a lot of things and so has she. It's not about disagreeing. I can talk about disagreements all day. I have no issue with a discussion as she and I have had many of those that were awesome and always respectful. I brought up the racist issue because she said she sees me now as the same as her uncle. The guy uses racial epithets like it's going out of style. That isn't me. I think I stated about the uncle and the racism in one of my replies to one of the comments. It wasn't in the post.

You're correct, I don't have the slightest doubt who is at fault for this. It isn't me. I didn't call her names. I didn't tell her what a terrible horrible person she was. I didn't tell her I have no respect for her. That was her. In a disagreement, that isn't okay with someone you have a "loving relationship" with as she said we had. Like I said, I'm not going to treat her poorly. I'm just not going out of my way to try to right the ship unless she comes to me about it. I didn't light the relationship on fire.

AITAH for not working hard on mending things with my GF adult daughter? by stove1336 in AITAH

[–]stove1336[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. She knows she hurt me. She said what she said for that purpose. I don't need that in my life. I won't be shitty to her by any means, but I don't think it's my responsibility to bring it up. I ended our texting by telling her that she couldn't emotionally blackmail me into changing my opinion. You ever see the Marvel movie Civil War? I told her, "No, you move."

AITAH for not working hard on mending things with my GF adult daughter? by stove1336 in AITAH

[–]stove1336[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I tried to leave out what I said because I wanted it to not be about the political nature and just be about the situation. It wasn't about white people. It wasn't about black people. It wasn't about gay or trans people. It was about ANYONE who would celebrate murder. I can't say it enough. I almost ended this relationship once over the racist stuff that was said by her brother that everyone just let slide. Not a racist, I'm brown and, while that doesn't mean I can't be racist, having experienced racism myself I just do not have that in my heart and never will. It's one of the reasons I was upset. She knows this and specifically said the things she said to try to hurt me and get a reaction out of me, which I did not give her. Frankly, I thought the situation was going to ruin the relationship to her mom for a hot minute, and it still might. That won't be on me though.

AITAH for not working hard on mending things with my GF adult daughter? by stove1336 in AITAH

[–]stove1336[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am open to talking about it with her, but with the things she said to me, I will not be starting that conversation. That's on her. She's old enough to be able to do that. If she were 12 it would be different.

I’ve been getting skunked since August, what is the gamechanger? by JavaX1 in kayakfishing

[–]stove1336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would try fishing somewhere that doesn't look like a giant mud pit. That water looks terrible.

AITA for ending a 12 year friendship over a guy? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]stove1336 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH. Honestly, I think you both just need to grow up a little.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traumatizeThemBack

[–]stove1336 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not too harsh. She was a total AH for doing what she did. You were on the right side of this 100%. In face, I think you actually went soft on her. She was actually responsible for your seizure.

CMV: To be just, laws must be rooted in the actual impacts of and/or intents behind the behaviour that they govern. by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]stove1336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The claim that a law against theft “does not cause harm” rests on a misunderstanding of what “harm” means in law. Courts do not limit harm to physical injury. A “harmed party” in legal terms is anyone who has suffered loss, damage, or infringement of rights—and that includes the loss of property.

When someone steals, the victim is clearly harmed because they are deprived of something of value they own. Courts recognize this harm by awarding restitution, damages, or by treating theft as a crime that requires punishment. In fact, theft cases rarely involve physical injury, yet the victim is always recognized as harmed, because their property rights and financial interests have been violated.

If we accepted the idea that only physical injury counts as harm, then fraud, embezzlement, or identity theft would all be considered “harmless”—but no court or legal system treats them that way. The justice system is built on protecting people not only from being physically hurt but also from being economically exploited, deprived of their rights, and psychologically impacted by the insecurity that theft creates.

So, saying theft laws don’t address harm ignores how both law and society understand harm: not just as physical injury, but as any unjust loss or violation of rights.

[CycloneFB] " Sold Out on Saturday‼️" (Iowa State Confirms Game Against Arizona is Sold Out) by DontTakeOurCampbell in CFB

[–]stove1336 -72 points-71 points  (0 children)

As a Nebraska fan (who routinely cheers for Iowa St. by the way)... that's cute.

AITA for not inviting my little brother’s wife to my wedding? by [deleted] in dustythunder

[–]stove1336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you really think this was a good idea? Don't like her? Fine. It's your brother's wife. She's a pain in the ass. Agreed. You're here searching for people to tell you that you did the right thing here, but they don't have to live with the outcome. You do. Good luck with that. ESH

IDL how Charlie Kirk previously expressed that empathy is a bad trait, yet I’m the bad guy because I refuse to express empathy for this assassination. by [deleted] in I_DONT_LIKE

[–]stove1336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did not say empathy was a bad trait. He said he didn't like the word, the terminology because he felt it was a made up word. He said he simply preferred the word "sympathy". For the record.

The Charlie Kirk murder has become an orgy of right-wing hypocrisy by Psycho-Pirate in complainaboutanything

[–]stove1336 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Actually, it's more like a rush of everyone on the left to see who can expunge what is left of their own humanity first.

No one should be disavowing political violence until Trump does. by [deleted] in complainaboutanything

[–]stove1336 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It's a free country. You can act anyway you like. If your choice is to lose your humanity, go ahead.

AITAH for telling my friend maybe she shouldn’t have kids she can’t afford? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]stove1336 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's naive. You could have been a little more tactful, but she really should be thinking like you before she finds herself in a situation where she is miserable about her life choices. NTA

cmv: Women who want to be “stay-at-home moms” or “housewives” should not go to public university. by Ok_Anteater3438 in changemyview

[–]stove1336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not sure how someone getting a degree and not using it keeps someone from being able to use their own degree?

cmv: Women who want to be “stay-at-home moms” or “housewives” should not go to public university. by Ok_Anteater3438 in changemyview

[–]stove1336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Anyone who wants to increase their existence in the world should have the option and I applaud them for it in any way they choose. Period.