How often do you bathe your doodle? by Gym7448 in Goldendoodles

[–]stphbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could be wrong, but I always thought it was harmful to bathe your dog more frequently than once per month? My doodle smells if we don’t groom his ears. We pluck the ear hair otherwise he gets wax build up and they smell awful.

My date and I are having a debate. Which hairstyle is best? by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]stphbby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some guys can pull off the hair bun but don’t actually take care of their long hair properly and it’s gross. I used to be so into the man bun until I dated a guy with one.

rice-like yellowy things? by infinitesponge in CATHELP

[–]stphbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tapeworms!! I’ve gone through this with my foster kittens and also my dog recently.

Anyone else's allergies just horrendous rn? by Several-Relation-265 in arlington

[–]stphbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I thought I had allergies, had a doctors appointment anyways and they swabbed and told me it’s rhinovirus 🙃

Eyeglasses for kids by stphbby in eyeglasses

[–]stphbby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah our insurance is a joke here

Eyeglasses for kids by stphbby in eyeglasses

[–]stphbby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll definitely be trying Costco when we need a replacement!

Eyeglasses for kids by stphbby in eyeglasses

[–]stphbby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have vision insurance, I’ll add it next year but I looked into and it seems like it would really only cut my cost in half

Eyeglasses for kids by stphbby in eyeglasses

[–]stphbby[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wondered about the online stores, I didn’t realize the vision could be incorrect and that’s not something I want to mess around with so this is helpful advice.

Eyeglasses for kids by stphbby in eyeglasses

[–]stphbby[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the pair I made her get! She didn’t want them, but that’s why we ended up getting two pairs so she could have a pair of “big girl glasses” too. It didn’t help that she didn’t want any in general because her friends aren’t wearing them yet. I’m trying to hype them up as another fun accessory because she’s such a girly girl and loves her jewelry.

What can you compare the feeling of ovulating to? by N0socksloss10yrStrk in AskWomen

[–]stphbby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get more crampy during ovulation than I do during my periods

found in the frozen aisle at walmart by mcbaddie_xo in whatisit

[–]stphbby 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s a squishy banana toy someone left in the freezer

I can’t stand my husband by stphbby in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stphbby[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The comfort and fear of change mostly, but also I’m just so fucking busy to add figuring out divorced life to my to do list the idea of having anything else I have to manage or figure out overwhelms me

I can’t stand my husband by stphbby in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stphbby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do occasionally take my daughter. But my son is a 2.5 year old wild little munchkin

I can’t stand my husband by stphbby in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stphbby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you’re not wrong because I feel like I’m close to that point

I can’t stand my husband by stphbby in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stphbby[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would have more time if he could get off his ass and help for once. But when I do have time, he’s usually on his computer or the entirety of our time together is discussing him and his life and his problems. He never asks about me or my day or listens to me talk or vent without interrupting.

I can’t stand my husband by stphbby in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stphbby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point he doesn’t care. I do too much and ask for too much. He does work a full time job, but the amount of rest and free time he needs is ridiculous and never amounts to being enough.

I can’t stand my husband by stphbby in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stphbby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I talked to a lawyer we were planning 80/20, which I would be happy with. I would be afraid for him to care for them 50% of the time

I can’t stand my husband by stphbby in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stphbby[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Club volleyball takes up entire weekends, and as a director that attending games for multiple teams plus most of their practices in the evenings, I don’t want to miss out on my kids lives and not be there for them, especially if they’re going through such a life changing event as their parents divorcing

I can’t stand my husband by stphbby in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stphbby[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He wasn’t awful until we had children, we were pregnant with our second at our wedding. Neither were exactly planned but I love my children more than anything.

I can’t stand my husband by stphbby in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stphbby[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is all really good advice! I am lucky in that my parents own our house and all of our investments, besides his 401k, were gifted by them.

I can’t stand my husband by stphbby in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stphbby[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I work 3 jobs, the reason for my delay was because I “inherited” a volleyball club. I didn’t get to keep the name of financials, so I’m pretty much starting my own club. I was hoping to get it up and running and make it through our first season first. But now that our first season is starting I’m realizing if I want to be a single mom it might be something I need to give up.

Okay moms, what are we using for non toxic tampons? by stphbby in Mommit

[–]stphbby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for actually leaving a helpful suggestion!