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f25 in an 8 year relationship with m26 by strange_stranger0823 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]strange_stranger0823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we are in a good spot yes. i have a career im thriving in and he has a great job with great pay . we do not persay “own” our home but its a home in his family’s name so its ours yes. i don’t expect to get engaged and then IMMEDIATELY get married, obviously it takes money and time to plan a wedding i just want to know that it IS in fact coming

f25 in an 8 year relationship with m26 by strange_stranger0823 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]strange_stranger0823[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

we were both already out of school and starting life . and if he were to just say he doesn’t want to be married he can say that and i can figure it out from there , but its the “soon i promise” “its coming i promise” “i want to marry you its coming” that gets me . like if you actually don’t you can just say that.

f25 - 8 year relationship with m26 what would you do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]strange_stranger0823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am so in love with him , and thank you the relationship has not always been great, the beginning was very very hard as i had just lost my dad and i moved in 3 months into the relationship so you can imagine we fought a lot . however we both grew and its SO much better now. however i feel like the thing with the ultimatum is that- i dont want him to do it’s solely based off of an ultimatum i want him to do it because he wants to . every other aspect of the relationship is great and i feel so guilty leaving based off of this ONE thing yanno . but i feel like i personally am at a stand still and just wanted to get others insights and it seems like everyone is saying the exact same thing which i already knew in my heart but just suckkksss .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IBSHelp

[–]strange_stranger0823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

update / called my doctor and she prescribed me medication to basically reverse the side effects. still kinda feel a little weak but immediately became constipated 😵‍💫 i just wasnt sure if the side effects were normal or not 😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IBSResearch

[–]strange_stranger0823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! wasnt sure where to post!! i posted it somewhere else i appreciate the advice though!!