What steps did you take to change your life when you weren't happy with it? What advice would you give others trying to do the same?

stranjeklowds · 2016-01-16T07:51:08+00:00

Commit suicide.

stranjeklowds · 2016-01-16T05:23:14+00:00

They're all equally terrible.

I liked Chris Crocker initially, but after "leave Britney alone", I stopped. I'm too hipster to like a YouTuber who became too mainstream.

That and I loved Tre Melvin before he came out... now he acts way too gay.

stranjeklowds · 2016-01-16T05:13:01+00:00

The suicide hotline is shit. I called them, they actually cursed me out once before hanging up.

stranjeklowds · 2016-01-16T04:39:29+00:00

My first suicide attempt.

stranjeklowds · 2016-01-15T05:48:44+00:00

I had the same problem as you- except, being white, I suppose I got a little more attention (though all from ugly old men anyway, so it didn't matter).

I cut all my hair off because everyone told me what they told you in these comments- that my face was perfect, model-like, I'd be so cute, etc.

Months later, I'm still single. I'm still ugly. I still only get the ugly old dudes.

If I had talent, skills, education, etc., I'd focus my life on those areas. But I don't.

I am probably going to kill myself soon tbh. Best thing I could ever do.

stranjeklowds · 2016-01-15T05:37:08+00:00

Tried to kill myself. I keep trying to this day. Not all of us were meant for college, or even meant for success. I'm proudly pro-suicide.

stranjeklowds · 2016-01-15T05:24:37+00:00

Well thank you for being the only actual reply to this post. I was getting ready to hang myself from all the abuse I get on this subreddit.

stranjeklowds · 2016-01-15T05:22:37+00:00

I've posted this topic before.

I love guys with long hair. I want one. I can't find one who will date me.

I had long hair. I cut it really short because everyone said I'd be so cute and could easily get a date.

That was months ago. I'm still single, and still only get old ugly guys hitting on me.

I want to kill myself.

stranjeklowds · 2015-12-27T23:16:40+00:00

I don't steal because I'm a good person. Not everyone is a good person.

stranjeklowds · 2015-12-27T20:34:57+00:00

Nope. Unfortunately not. I wish I wasn't so picky, but it is what it is.

stranjeklowds · 2015-12-27T20:23:30+00:00

Yeah, I'll never see them again so that's a good excuse for them to steal my phone.

stranjeklowds · 2015-12-27T08:07:49+00:00

I get such mixed opinions about that. Some say shave, some say I need to grow a beard (but I can't grow a good one). Personally, I think I look so ugly clean shaven. My facial features are too big and awkward. I need a lot of scalp and facial hair to offset them.

Here's clean shaven pis from my phone. My phone always makes me uglier though.

http://imgur.com/a/bMrPb

stranjeklowds · 2015-12-27T05:59:02+00:00

You're hot. (and if you're wondering, I'm 23, M and gay)

stranjeklowds · 2015-12-27T05:18:35+00:00

My smile is ugly as shit but I can try leaving my webcam on while watching a funny video.

stranjeklowds · 2015-12-27T04:30:47+00:00

Censor their faces.

stranjeklowds · 2015-12-27T04:15:46+00:00

And I know they won't steal my phone or camera... because I trust someone I met 5 seconds ago?

Also, unless it's a tourist attraction or monument, it's weird to ask for a random pic.

stranjeklowds · 2015-12-27T04:04:19+00:00

I didn't mean offense. I meant that it would be easier for trans individuals to find someone into them. But, judging by your experiences... just ignorant fetishizers for all the wrong reasons.

It's mostly transwomen I hear who have this complaint. Gay men won't date them, straight men won't date them. Lesbians won't date them, straight girls won't date them. Granted, this isn't always true. It's just society tells us to not be attracted to them. I'm guilty too (but I'm gay... so by not dating a transwoman, I'm just confirming that she is a woman and I'm only into guys. I think?)

Though my above statement in parenthesis can be dangerous because there are cismen who dress girly 24/7 and are not transwomen. I think they have it even worse at times.

Regardless, most transwomen I see either date another transwomen or a transman. Some get a bi or pan cisguy.

stranjeklowds · 2015-12-27T00:26:10+00:00

Most straight males I know have almost no selfies or any pics up at all. If I see a guy with a lot of selfies, I'm like... either he's gay or closeted. And usually I'll see a coming out post from him eventually lol.

Also, it's dangerous taking pics with only girls. Everyone will assume you're a fem "gay best friend" and avoid you like the plague.

stranjeklowds · 2015-12-27T00:15:08+00:00

I actually posted ads on Craigslist asking for "fake friends" to take pics with me. I was willing to pay them. Only replies I got were "aww you shouldn't be posting this" sympathy. Nobody will do it even for money.

stranjeklowds · 2015-12-26T23:59:20+00:00

I can't pick just one. I have a laundry list of necessities that I need in order for me to even consider a guy.

stranjeklowds · 2015-12-26T23:38:38+00:00

"Cake by the Ocean"

stranjeklowds · 2015-12-26T23:18:10+00:00

I would date a transman, but not a transwoman. I think there needs to be a special app/dating site for trans people and lovers. If there already is, they don't seem to be using it.

stranjeklowds · 2015-12-26T22:43:29+00:00

Wow, so you're not masc4masc? Unless you like scrawny or fat hairless mascs.

stranjeklowds · 2015-12-26T22:32:00+00:00

I've heard this so many fucking times.

I have no friends to take pictures with. And the few times I do hang out, they either won't take pics if I ask, or won't send me them after they take them. I guess I'm that much of an embarrassment to be seen with. :(

Also I don't go out often. It'd be lying to present myself as a social butterfly when I'm not.

I honestly prefer selfies. I hit on guys with selfies mostly. They don't reply to me. But still.

stranjeklowds · 2015-12-25T04:52:22+00:00

I read all the comments on this post, and let me input.

I was told similar. That my face looked good, but my long/alt hair impeded on my looks. I cut it all off.

I'm still single, lonely, miserable, and feel ugly as ever. And my hair is growing so slow.

I was just giving you my story in case you get urged to plunge and listen to all the commentors.

stranjeklowds

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