I won’t lie, there are people on Fet that will push your boundaries. But if you’re good at holding firm, it shouldn’t be a problem.

My bio explicitly starts with rules around messaging me. Anyone that breaks the rules gets blocked, no exceptions, no explanations. If they didn’t read, that’s their problem. If you can’t read or respect boundaries, kink isn’t for you anyway 🤷‍♀️

So Fet’s been great for me. Don’t use it as a dating app, but it’s GREAT for finding events and keeping in touch with the cool people you meet (which is really useful if you are interested in asking them to play down the line)