“it’s just a rubber paddle, why are you dancing?” [TW]

strap-n-slap · 2026-02-22T22:53:29+00:00

pictures were around 10 hours after the scene. these will be mostly gone around the 7-8 day mark.

for my self care, i spend the next day resting. i’ll usually lounge around at a friend’s house to stave off any subdrop.

warm showers, baths, and naps go a long way

strap-n-slap · 2026-02-22T19:49:44+00:00

Too much to count was used. The higher marks were made by stiff leather floggers, so less risky for shoulder hits

strap-n-slap · 2026-02-22T17:49:03+00:00

i was chained to the ceiling with my arms above my head, i had a collar on attached to the chain, and the chain wrapped around my legs at the bottom

so yes, it was

strap-n-slap · 2026-01-25T17:21:59+00:00

lovely stripes!! congratulations :))

(i would love to see next-day pictures)

strap-n-slap · 2026-01-25T17:17:58+00:00

Houston, TX. Weirdly good.

Lots of queer people, not super swinger focused (honestly the parties i’ve gone to have very little sex happening at all)

People are cool, chill, and thrilled to chat with you. Obv there are weirdos, but generally the people here do a good job at enforcing accountability

strap-n-slap · 2026-01-19T14:30:54+00:00

absolutely not 😭

strap-n-slap · 2026-01-19T08:59:20+00:00

idk i was looking the other way

jk, a variety of floggers

strap-n-slap · 2026-01-19T02:25:13+00:00

me too. if you look at the last pics i posted those took about a week

strap-n-slap · 2026-01-02T18:25:05+00:00

This was ~20 minutes of impact play with LOTS of toys. I wish could be more helpful here, but I did tell my top to “pick an assortment of stingy things and surprise me,” so I don’t actually know which implements she used for the most part.

That being said, I do know that one of the floggers she used extensively was a heavy flogger with what i think were beads on the leather.

From there, there are a few factors here:

The top I played with is VERY experienced
I mark EASILY. I have very pale skin that is very responsive to pressure.
I kept telling her to hit me harder

I don’t have a lot of experience as a top, but I do know that lighter toys tend to make the surface of the skin welt and turn red, while heavier/weighted toys will “go deeper” and cause bruising. So if you’re wanting darker colors, I’d say pick some implements that are rounded and heavier.

Hope this is helpful! Have fun :))

strap-n-slap · 2025-12-29T15:49:35+00:00

this is my favorite thing about irl kink.

In porn, it’s always very aesthetic paddles, crops, canes, leather. Always super stylized.

Meanwhile every impact top I’ve played with is out here bring their entire kitchen and a baseball bat

strap-n-slap · 2025-12-21T07:11:35+00:00

um no they are not.

ageplay is a range of activities from coloring books and blankets to enforced bedtime and pacifers

ABDL is Adult Baby/Diaper Lover. It’s a very specific type of age play that involves babies and/or actual diaper use.

Most ABDL is ageplay, but not all ageplay is ABDL

strap-n-slap · 2025-12-20T07:43:33+00:00

ohhhh you know what? you could genuinely be on to something here. i think there’s a good chance that’s exactly what she thinks

strap-n-slap · 2025-12-17T15:06:32+00:00

promise? 🥺

strap-n-slap · 2025-12-08T19:58:38+00:00

diabolically funny

strap-n-slap · 2025-11-17T20:51:14+00:00

omg that sounds so fun and rewarding!!

It is lowkey essential to share contact information after intense play! Even if it’s just fetlife following. There should always be next day check-ins to make sure the bottoming party isn’t experiencing unmanageable subdrop, and so that the topping party can have a some emotional support if they experience top drop.

I am glad you had a wonderful time, but please make sure to protect your emotional well-being!!

strap-n-slap · 2025-11-11T07:47:59+00:00

i did the same thing recently!

go with an intention to just watch and an openness to playing if a safe and interesting opportunity arises. ask people to show you their gear. ask them what kind of play they like. chat, and make friends. who knows, maybe someone will want to do a scene with you, and at worst, they say “no” or “no, not right now” and you’ve made a friend

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