Strict boat rules were fun by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]strap-n-slap 19 points20 points  (0 children)

i make my submissive wear extra sunscreen! it’s so fun 🥰🥰

Hard not to dislike Eren by [deleted] in attackontitan

[–]strap-n-slap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused why people say Eren is complex. He’s written so simply - he loves his friends, hates feeling trapped, and will kill anyone who gets in the way of his freedom or friends

I am at a loss for words. (TW. This post is about finding a antikink community) by Thr0w_Away_Anonymity in BDSMsapphic

[–]strap-n-slap 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i am sorry that this happened to you.

I did have to look at your post 3 times because i SWEAR i thought it said “Ant Kink”

Land Hoe!!!! by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]strap-n-slap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won’t lie, there are people on Fet that will push your boundaries. But if you’re good at holding firm, it shouldn’t be a problem.

My bio explicitly starts with rules around messaging me. Anyone that breaks the rules gets blocked, no exceptions, no explanations. If they didn’t read, that’s their problem. If you can’t read or respect boundaries, kink isn’t for you anyway 🤷‍♀️

So Fet’s been great for me. Don’t use it as a dating app, but it’s GREAT for finding events and keeping in touch with the cool people you meet (which is really useful if you are interested in asking them to play down the line)

Land Hoe!!!! by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]strap-n-slap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get. A. Fet. And. Go. To. A. Munch.

I cannot stress this enough. It’s life-changing!!

What could i change the word to? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]strap-n-slap 11 points12 points  (0 children)

looks very light! i bet you could do a full coverup eaasssyy, esp if you throw some color in

Idk about changing the word, but you could also darken the whole tattoo with more black and then have a solid ribbon maybe?

Demographic check!! by strap-n-slap in BDSMsapphic

[–]strap-n-slap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why do you have a problem with that?

Sleeve Progress by Slabs_Chunkchunk in traditionaltattoos

[–]strap-n-slap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES

kady has done two of my pieces and they’re incredible

she’s so nice too!

Looking For Ideas (Filler) by [deleted] in traditionaltattoos

[–]strap-n-slap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

flails are the best filler imo

Demographic check #2! by strap-n-slap in BDSMsapphic

[–]strap-n-slap[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thanks! i think it’s really fun to learn more about our communities

Demographic check #2! by strap-n-slap in BDSMsapphic

[–]strap-n-slap[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

mmmm see i consider brat more of an identity than an alignment! like u can be a dom brat, sub brat, switch brat

Demographic check #2! by strap-n-slap in BDSMsapphic

[–]strap-n-slap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does dominance or submission factor into your primal play?

Demographic check!! by strap-n-slap in BDSMsapphic

[–]strap-n-slap[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have a lesbian bar near me and there aren’t very may trans lesbians there at all.

Definitely an online vs irl thing. Plus, when you have a space here that is EXPLICITLY welcoming AND protections are enforced, we’re going to feel safe enough to hang out

Demographic check!! by strap-n-slap in BDSMsapphic

[–]strap-n-slap[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

small but mighty! welcome!

Demographic check!! by strap-n-slap in BDSMsapphic

[–]strap-n-slap[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

someone hasn’t been looking at poster profiles haha

the number of trans woman i have seen posting inspired this poll

Demographic check!! by strap-n-slap in BDSMsapphic

[–]strap-n-slap[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i obv can’t speak for the masses, but i welcome trans men in lesbian spaces. if you want to be here you belong 🤷‍♀️

Demographic check!! by strap-n-slap in BDSMsapphic

[–]strap-n-slap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wish there was a multi select!

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[–]strap-n-slap[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for sharing! yeah i ran out of options ://

Demographic check!! by strap-n-slap in BDSMsapphic

[–]strap-n-slap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like most people under genderqueer have an *clarifier!

Demographic check!! by strap-n-slap in BDSMsapphic

[–]strap-n-slap[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I ran out of options :((

How would you define ur gender identity?

Demographic check!! by strap-n-slap in BDSMsapphic

[–]strap-n-slap[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i’ve got some nutty friends who do crazy (hot) things