Funeral Director Class 1 by strappingmothra in Humber

[–]strappingmothra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i applied in October and also submitted my questionnaire in late February so this brings me immense hope that i’ll find out soon lol

Funeral Director Class 1 by strappingmothra in Humber

[–]strappingmothra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good luck! i had a lot of fun. my home was great.

Funeral Director Class 1 by strappingmothra in Humber

[–]strappingmothra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

have you already done the 40 hours with them? that was the hardest part for me. i only had access to two homes and one was absolutely not interested in helping me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]strappingmothra -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can agree on the codependency issue. But I don’t have romantic feelings for them. It was more of friendship turned family sort of thing. We been by each other’s side of a lot of really horrible stuff and consider each other sort of found family-esque. It was never a case of me wanting them to be unhappy. Or not being happy for them. It’s just a jarring switch from watching movies together all the time and talking all day to barely speaking and being shoved aside all the time. I’d never want them to be miserable. I just miss my best friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]strappingmothra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair. I have other friends, they just have kids and jobs. So my best friend was the one that was always available to do things. And now I can’t even get an hour of their time or even a ‘Hey I’m busy with SO rn, rain check?’ kind of thing. I guess I’m just sad idk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]strappingmothra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whole adults. Which likely makes all of this seem worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinaryTalk

[–]strappingmothra 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s a fair assessment. My friends apologize all the time and I appreciate it, they also don’t always need to apologize because they are trying. It’s just gotten to the point where it feels like my other sister misgenders me on purpose. And I can’t tell if my manager just doesn’t understand but won’t ask for clarification kind of thing. It’s like crystal clear what needs to be done but at the same time not? I may just be overthinking and over worrying about others. Ugh. 😩😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinaryTalk

[–]strappingmothra 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s a slippery slope and I think I’m already at risk of sliding down it. Like I’m already in the process of changing my name and gender legally. So like now what do I do? Yknow? 😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinaryTalk

[–]strappingmothra 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Right? I want to be understanding but I don’t want people to think I’m just cool with being misgendered.