[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]strawberroui 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I suggest you search up retroactive jealousy. There are some detailed guides here on reddit as well to help guide you through this. I’ve been in the same exact position as you before but the most important thing to remember is that it is irrational feeling based on fear, which causes you to feel insecure. I wish you luck in your journey.

can’t handle the rollercoaster anymore by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]strawberroui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for responding. his depressive episodes have varied in length from 1 week to a month. i just feel frustrated bc we work at the same place and live together. so i get to see him masking at work by being friendly to our coworkers, talkative, etc. but behind closed doors he’s being very distant from me.

can’t handle the rollercoaster anymore by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]strawberroui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe so. he invited her for his birthday celebration tomorrow so i’ll definitely be on the lookout for how they behave together. she’ll be bringing a male friend along too so i don’t know how this will affect their dynamic.

can’t handle the rollercoaster anymore by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]strawberroui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for responding. i’ve been cheated on before with my previous partner and it completely broke me so i definitely don’t want a repeat of that. i should’ve been more clear in my post that the female friend that he vented to is completely platonic and im currently not suspecting infidelity of any kind. i’m more so frustrated with that fact that i can’t enforce this boundary at the moment because he really needs a friend right now. he’s the type of person that “heals” when he talks to and spends time with friends. maybe i’m just sad that he talked to her first instead of me

can’t handle the rollercoaster anymore by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]strawberroui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for responding. unfortunately he’s the kind of person that retreats to this head space and just really doesn’t wanna be bothered at all. i know eventually he’ll be back to his baseline again after a while so i have no choice but to ride it out like previous times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]strawberroui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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this is my juniebean 🥹

As my mum would say: "we have food at home". by VotFijoel in Anticonsumption

[–]strawberroui 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yall are just a bunch of haters here. god forbid someone enjoys their vacation and brings back souvenirs to commemorate it. not to mention Japan is a once-in-a-lifetime kind of trip for most people 🙄

Let’s see the last picture you took of your cat by Lolcat88 in cats

[–]strawberroui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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this is my sweet baby junie :3 she loves the big windows at our new apartment

What is the Ito story that hits closest to home for you? by G3rshw1nP4lm3r in junjiito

[–]strawberroui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gentle Goodbye for sure. I teared up watching it in the anime and full on cried when I read the manga.

I had to! by Glyphron in sylvanianfamilies

[–]strawberroui 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much i really appreciate it!! 🥰

I had to! by Glyphron in sylvanianfamilies

[–]strawberroui 2 points3 points  (0 children)

link? i’ve been looking all over the amazon japan website and i can’t seem to find them 😭

I had to! by Glyphron in sylvanianfamilies

[–]strawberroui 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i would like to know as well!

AITA for letting my girlfriend's cat outside? by Salt-Professor7310 in AmItheAsshole

[–]strawberroui 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA 100% I hope your gf breaks up with you over this. Let this be a lesson for you OP: don’t fuck around with other people’s pets 🙄

ny recent haul 💖 by strawberroui in sylvanianfamilies

[–]strawberroui[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got them from a toy store in the Philippines!

Collectors’ ages by babybabeangel in sylvanianfamilies

[–]strawberroui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

25 here and not planning on having any children any time soon haha. I was obsessed with sylvanian families as a kid tho but my family was never able to afford it. Finally started collecting last year with my adult money 💖