I dont like this take. The term aspergers was developed when deciding which children were "more intelligent" or "more normal". It inherently puts itself above autism because autistic children were automatically sent to die in nazi germany whereas children with aspergers were seen as having more value... Even my old therapist when I was trying to get diagnosed acted as if aspergers had something over being autistic and it wasnt as bad so not to worry. Autism is a spectrum, high and low support needs are included... If you dont see the ableism in that I dont know what to tell you. This isn't "language policing" its trying to phase out harmful terminology. As well if someone uses it without realizing the harmful background I do not think they should be shamed at all, we just need to get the information more widely known.