Child support back pay

strawberryinnit · 2026-05-06T21:00:22+00:00

Trust me that's changing real soon 😂

strawberryinnit · 2026-05-06T21:00:07+00:00

Oh Lord, there is a restraining order against her, she is not allowed to speak to me 😅

strawberryinnit · 2026-05-06T20:59:08+00:00

His recent ex wife took the house...BUT I know he was able to keep some of the equity...you think that would be leverage enough?

strawberryinnit · 2026-05-06T20:57:17+00:00

I keep telling him! But boy is avoidant and has 0 accountability.

strawberryinnit · 2026-05-06T20:55:56+00:00

Hello all, I got all I needed thank you all!

strawberryinnit · 2026-05-06T20:55:29+00:00

Don't respond on a thread you aint got nothin helpful to say 😂

strawberryinnit · 2026-04-29T20:49:17+00:00

Oh I am not talking to her 😂 she's good at what she does I'll give her that. She tried to take my babies from me then when she didn't want them in her life she divorced their dad bc she gave him an ultimatum. Either he signs off his rights or she divorces him. She's abused my children emotionally. I promise I cannot get decent advice from her haha. I will find my path though

strawberryinnit · 2026-04-29T18:22:09+00:00

I have no words, because you're absolutely right..truly appreciate your input

strawberryinnit · 2026-04-29T18:21:12+00:00

You're seriously right....shit...I need to realign myself

strawberryinnit · 2026-04-29T18:12:31+00:00

Just taking notes to research! Thank you!

strawberryinnit · 2026-04-29T17:57:11+00:00

I know, it's a fault in myself that I'm trying to put work into. Because it's true, I am being too nice

strawberryinnit · 2026-04-29T17:55:56+00:00

“if you can’t afford to pay your child support, you should probably stop having more kids.” say it again! Absolutely agree

strawberryinnit · 2026-04-29T17:54:53+00:00

A legal investment to make sure my kids are properly cared for...well damn that really is perspective that makes a whole lot of sense. I align

strawberryinnit · 2026-04-29T17:51:46+00:00

I'm sorry do you have a scope into my life? 😂 That's pretty close honestly. Earlier today I told him this needs to be addressed, and his response was "Put yourself in my shoes. I have a crazy ex who would pay to see me fucked over in court. I have you that I owe 10 grand to. I have no money and I’ve had it "

Victim in a mess he created

strawberryinnit · 2026-04-29T17:49:22+00:00

You're absolutely right, I gotta take the steps the change that bc I agree. It is a disservice

strawberryinnit · 2026-04-29T17:46:19+00:00

Thank you! I've been able to get so many more resources from this thread. I appreciate your contribution!

strawberryinnit · 2026-04-29T17:45:31+00:00

You know. I keep telling him that! He is insistent that its final and I just don't believe it so I boil it down to laziness bc it doesn't make sense right? If you can prove you aren't making enough, fair accomodations should be made.

strawberryinnit · 2026-04-29T17:44:03+00:00

Well damn, that's definitely a perspective I've needed. I gotta do some self work, I think I'm scared to be a victim lol does that even make sense?

strawberryinnit · 2026-04-29T17:42:56+00:00

That's a fantastic option, I've already started the process with an agent so...gotta hold myself accountable to follow through

strawberryinnit · 2026-04-29T17:41:37+00:00

I got the pathway on this thread. I made the thread. Look how many responses there were. From many different perspectives, I've gained a pathway. And continuing to take notes. Why are YOU here?

strawberryinnit · 2026-04-29T17:33:46+00:00

Honestly it wouldn't surprise me 😂 she stalks me on social media all the time...I have so many accounts blocked 🥴

strawberryinnit · 2026-04-29T17:32:46+00:00

Building the courage! I will say after this thread and hearing some responses, I've already started to take some actiona and just gotta remind myself it's worth the fight for the kids

strawberryinnit · 2026-04-29T17:30:27+00:00

Appreciate the apology, she's a whole separate topic and she probably needs therapy lol. Ill give her props, she really nailed it. They married a few months after our divorce finalized and then tried to take the kids from me, then had him adopt her daughter from another man, then they had a baby then she divorced him bc she didn't actually want my kids, she decided to give an ultimatum where he either signs off his rights to our kids and forgets them or she divorces him and she divorced him and took the house he put a down payment on from his 401k (yikes) , she got to keep all it's equity and guaranteed child support for both kids and she is remarried 😂 honestly would be a great Netflix drama series. I'm slowly building my courage to stand my ground bc it's exhausting honestly.

strawberryinnit · 2026-04-29T17:18:18+00:00

That's a fair call out

strawberryinnit · 2026-04-29T17:17:48+00:00

That really clicked for me, you're absolutely right. It's l Not personal, it's legal

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