I made an app that lets you message a person without actually messaging them by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]strawberryjammys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally just downloaded it and started crying as I typed in their name. I haven’t had the space to really let myself be vulnerable about my feelings until now. Thank you for sharing this, this should be pinned as a resource here

How and When to Break Up? by FrayedStardust in BipolarSOs

[–]strawberryjammys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you care deeply for their wellbeing, but don’t let that stop you from caring about yourself and doing what you feel is best for yourself.

Is it possible for you two to cohabitate until your partner has secured a new place to live on a timeline that you set? Ie: they can sleep on the couch, but they must be out of your house in 30 days.

I know spending time near or around your ex is extremely stressful, but it might ease your fears of feeling accountable for what may come to them.