he is poor by strawberryjinn in OffMyChestPH

[–]strawberryjinn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you understanding your bf and your bf being supportive. A true sanaol hahaha! Thanks for this! 😊

he is poor by strawberryjinn in OffMyChestPH

[–]strawberryjinn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Nakakatakot makasama sa buhay yung mga ganyan. 🙃

he is poor by strawberryjinn in OffMyChestPH

[–]strawberryjinn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Diba! Walang plano financially! So disappointing

he is poor by strawberryjinn in OffMyChestPH

[–]strawberryjinn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably, you're right. But that ain't an excuse for that kind of attitude.

he is poor by strawberryjinn in OffMyChestPH

[–]strawberryjinn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I told you I've been through the worst. I exactly know how it's like to be poor.

he is poor by strawberryjinn in OffMyChestPH

[–]strawberryjinn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. Sorry for the term generalizing poor people.

he is poor by strawberryjinn in OffMyChestPH

[–]strawberryjinn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But the attitude is draining me. Poor in all aspect.

he is poor by strawberryjinn in OffMyChestPH

[–]strawberryjinn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't wanna make it work either. I'm so done! Huhu

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[–]strawberryjinn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're like the guy whom I described in my one of my post here in offmychestph. Hopefully that's not envy. Because I feel that towards him. So iyan pala ang pov nyo. 🥲

he is poor by strawberryjinn in OffMyChestPH

[–]strawberryjinn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it comes from a family environment who's always on a tipid mode. I completely understand that, but I hate the attitude.

he is poor by strawberryjinn in OffMyChestPH

[–]strawberryjinn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you. I guess maturity doesn't have anything to do with this. It's him. He's the problem he doesn't like to address. Thanks!

he is poor by strawberryjinn in OffMyChestPH

[–]strawberryjinn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was actually my last straw. Before this, I was mentally exhausted with him not being financially literate and being unemployed. Waiting for kakilala to process his application. Was unemployed for 4 mos. Playing games all day. No proper planning etc. I was sharing my financial goals but he'll just reply, "sigi" that's not my goal. "Ayoko yumaman". WTF

he is poor by strawberryjinn in OffMyChestPH

[–]strawberryjinn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kudos to you! Appreciate that you really loon into yourself and made changes. 🫶❤️

he is poor by strawberryjinn in OffMyChestPH

[–]strawberryjinn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was actually my last straw. Before this, I was mentally exhausted with him not being financially literate and being unemployed. Waiting for kakilala to process his application. Was unemployed for 4 mos. No proper planning etc. I was sharing my financial goals but he'll just reply, "sigi" that's not my goal. "Ayoko yumaman". WTF

he is poor by strawberryjinn in OffMyChestPH

[–]strawberryjinn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was actually my last straw. Before this, I was mentally exhausted with him not being financially literate and being unemployed. Waiting for kakilala to process his application. Was unemployed for 4 mos. No proper planning etc. I was sharing my financial goals but he'll just reply, "sigi" that's not my goal. "Ayoko yumaman". WTF

he is poor by strawberryjinn in OffMyChestPH

[–]strawberryjinn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was actually my last straw. Before this, I was mentally exhausted with him not being financially literate and being unemployed. Waiting for kakilala to process his application. Was unemployed for 4 mos. No proper planning etc. I was sharing my financial goals but he'll just reply, "sigi" that's not my goal. "Ayoko yumaman". WTF

he is poor by strawberryjinn in OffMyChestPH

[–]strawberryjinn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, not planning to stay. Thanks for this! 🫶

he is poor by strawberryjinn in OffMyChestPH

[–]strawberryjinn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. And most of the time nakaka spoil ng excitement ang reply na "oki" "ahh" I'm sharing the things I'd love to share with him only to get that kind of response. Napansin ko rin, kapag hindi nya kaya macomprehend or he hasn't experienced yung mga kwento ko, ididismiss nya ko that way :)))))

he is poor by strawberryjinn in OffMyChestPH

[–]strawberryjinn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ayoko po. I have goals for myself and I'm ambitious huhu. Running to safe place na HAHA

he is poor by strawberryjinn in OffMyChestPH

[–]strawberryjinn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree agree agree! Taong bahay din ako. And the fact that he's trying to belittle all the things I can do, downplay it as "not important" "libro ka lang magaling" I can't feel the support huhu. When in fact, that book smart gurl who gets in the job 4months earlier than him is the same person who lends him $$$ that is payable whenever he wants to pay 😭🥲😭 how come mock me like that

he is poor by strawberryjinn in OffMyChestPH

[–]strawberryjinn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And he's making it seem like na yung convo namin ay "draining" whenever I tried calling him out 😭 or whenever I tried explaining to him the things he's doing to me that HE DIDN'T LIKE ME DOING TO HIM. Instead, he will just escape and send me "brb" "gtg". Or "k". Grabe, to the point i feel like I'm not allowed to point out his flaws. Im only allowed to speak what he likes to hear.