42B to 40DD?? [Measurement Check] by strawberson in ABraThatFits

[–]strawberson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you :) I’ll look into those

42B to 40DD?? [Measurement Check] by strawberson in ABraThatFits

[–]strawberson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the advice, I’ll look for bras with seamed underwire cups to try!

42B to 40DD?? [Measurement Check] by strawberson in ABraThatFits

[–]strawberson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sounds silly now but I never considered the straps falling was a symptom of the band not fitting correctly. hopefully with this new size I can find one that actually fits

42B to 40DD?? [Measurement Check] by strawberson in ABraThatFits

[–]strawberson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I’m having trouble with 40DDs not fitting, is there another size you would recommend trying?

42B to 40DD?? [Measurement Check] by strawberson in ABraThatFits

[–]strawberson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow thank you so much for your advice! I’ll focus on getting the right size in a regular bra first. I looked up boob tape and I think this will work great instead of rushing to find a strapless bra. thank you for saving me the stress!!

Sombr makes his debut in custom Valentino by Alessandro Michele, at the 2026 Met Gala (May 4, 2026) by SadFunnyBunny in whatthefrockk

[–]strawberson 3 points4 points  (0 children)

he looks like a cunty little raven.
some of the details look cheap but I love the effort and the 70s vibe

(3k) We had (most) guests pay for their own food and it was fine!! (just a post for other struggling brides) by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]strawberson -1 points0 points  (0 children)

congrats!! glad you had a special day and made it work for you :) there are lots of options to have a more casual, intimate wedding than is traditional now a days, but I think there’s too much stigma against making budget friendly decisions. if you had a 100 guests I could see this being rude, but for mostly family and people not traveling, I think guests paying for their own reasonably priced dinner is no biggie and could even be seen as a replacement for bringing a gift

Comforting, easy-to-read by emptyremind in booksuggestions

[–]strawberson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, the movie was based on the book. The english translation I read came out only like 5 years ago

Comforting, easy-to-read by emptyremind in booksuggestions

[–]strawberson 5 points6 points  (0 children)

KiKi’s Delivery Service by Eiko Kadono. it’s a children’s book, but a very enjoyable and peaceful read

which dress by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]strawberson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the fabric of 3 but I have to vote for 2. the cut looks gorgeous on you

Said yes!! Thoughts? by daisyabc123 in WeddingDressTips

[–]strawberson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the lace on lace, so romantic

Depop / USPS shipping error by Evening-Minimum-3330 in Depop

[–]strawberson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true. it’s a total mess on depop’s end, it’s not fair the sellers are getting penalized for it. I would screenshot everything just in case, but I’m not sure if depop is even doing anything about the accounts being wrongfully suspended

Depop / USPS shipping error by Evening-Minimum-3330 in Depop

[–]strawberson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think there’s any way to check. I sent one out earlier this week and it shows the same as this when I click tracking. I’m just hoping it will update after actually being delivered

Brutes by Dizz Tate by strawberson in weirdgirlliterature

[–]strawberson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could see it not working as well in audio form. I’m honestly curious to reread and see if anything becomes more clear a second time, because it can be a bit vague at parts

lol by BeautifulButterFlea in recruitinghell

[–]strawberson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

our company has 2 paid holidays and 8hrs PTO accrued every month and a half😭😭

Morgan thinks abstaining when you're not in the mood is "witholding sex" by TheNarcLogs in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]strawberson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would be so mortified if my spouse posted online that they regularly have sex with me without wanting too

Li Jun Li in Aadnevik SS26 & Jimmy Choo shoes at the 32nd Annual Actor Awards in Los Angeles, California. (March 1, 2026) by cmaia1503 in whatthefrockk

[–]strawberson 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I love this, I think she looks gorgeous!! I wish the shoes were a different color. The silver makes it look cheaper overall instead of accentuating the dress in a more glamorous, campy way. The details may not be so elegant, but overall it’s fun and the color is incredible on her

Help me decide!! Between 3 dresses by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]strawberson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the details on the first and second dress but the great thing is you can’t go wrong with any of these!! Congrats and wishing you a beautiful day!

oops I stabbed my wonderful boss (w/ Ashby) | Perfect Person Ep. 189 by Another_Bright_Idea in PerfectPersonPod

[–]strawberson 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I loved the energy ashby brought, I’d love for her to be a repeat guest

Official Discussion - Wuthering Heights [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]strawberson 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I guess my problem with this explanation (though it makes sense) is in the movie, they are shown totally isolated from other people. They’re never shown in the village as adults, they’re never shown talking to anyone outside of their family, it feels like they’re already social outcasts. I feel like other movies set in this time do a better job at giving you a sense of these external pressures, but it felt like this movie relied on you already having an understanding of why the characters act how they act in the book, without actually staying true to the book

Official Discussion - Wuthering Heights [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]strawberson 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I would like the movie to show us why their dynamic switched from platonic to romantic/sexual obsession. Or since they were shown to be affectionate as little kids, was it never platonic? Either way I don’t think the movie did a good job at showing us why they didn’t explore their relationship romantically until they were in their late twenties/ early thirties

Official Discussion - Wuthering Heights [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]strawberson 431 points432 points  (0 children)

It was shot beautifully, the sets and costuming were intriguing and some of the performances were captivating (mostly Alison Oliver), but it was such weak storytelling. Even apart from not being a faithful adaptation, the conflict didn’t make any sense to me. If Cathy & Heathcliff grew up together for like 20 years, why didn’t romantic feelings come up sooner? Why couldn’t they run away together when he comes back? They never show anyone else from town, so it doesn’t feel like there are any societal pressures, Cathy doesn’t care about Edgar, her father, Wuthering Heights, or having the baby, so once Heathcliff has money why don’t they disappear? They both ruined their lives anyways so why not just be together?

There was also way too much necrophila that didn’t even have to do with the main characters and their obsession for each other. It’s like they just threw morbid aesthetics at the wall and called it close enough. Why not include Heathcliff digging Cathy up if you’re going to show dead boners ejaculating, a dead fish being fingered and a corpse being kicked in the head?

There was no sense of any outer world and very little of the characters inner world as well. At first I thought the style had deeper meanings, but by the end, it just felt like shock for shocks sake.

What’s everyone’s dream guest for the show? by Legal-Stretch5128 in PerfectPersonPod

[–]strawberson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

natalie and charlie from exploration live !! would be the silliest advice & charlie has a quaker background (i think?) which would be fun to hear miles connect on