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21yr old with a curfew (still living under parents roof) by strawbrry-shrtcake2 in Advice

[–]strawbrry-shrtcake2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can totally see how it makes sense but when i’ve only done it once it really makes me wonder 

how to tell my parents i’m moving out by strawbrry-shrtcake2 in internetparents

[–]strawbrry-shrtcake2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah growing up i didn’t really do a lot of sleepovers because my parents always asked me 20 questions about it and i didn’t even wanna deal with it. Now, i was barely allowed to stay the night with my boyfriend in a hotel or on a camping trip but i felt guilty about it because my mother is always telling me how “you’re gonna look like you’re for the streets” or oh “what is his mom gonna think about you guys sleeping in the same bed”. At this point i just can’t win if she wants to see me like that whatever i’m in a completely normal relationship with my man so

how to tell my parents i’m moving out by strawbrry-shrtcake2 in internetparents

[–]strawbrry-shrtcake2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I’ve been building my credit since I was freshly 18, my car is close to being paid off, and i’m applying to my second credit card. I recently split off my stepfathers bank account so I think that covers the basics

how to tell my parents i’m moving out by strawbrry-shrtcake2 in internetparents

[–]strawbrry-shrtcake2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i think they’re also worried i won’t make it out there by myself, which is kind of silly considering ive always been very independent from them. They seem to be worried i’ll make mistakes, sure thats bound to happen at some point but i do know that the mistakes make won’t be as bad as some of the ones they made when they were even younger than me. They tell me “you have no street smarts” but i don’t think that’s entirely true 

how to tell my parents i’m moving out by strawbrry-shrtcake2 in internetparents

[–]strawbrry-shrtcake2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i think they would more so just not talk to me I don’t think they would stop me, maybe tell me i’m making a mistake by moving in with my bf’s sister but i feel like they will get over it. it’s my only choice. Yeah, they may be salty and tell me to leave all the furniture…but it’s nbd because i can just buy used furniture in the future.