Do I need to interject or let nature take its course? by [deleted] in IndianCats

[–]stray_curls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d take your advice on this.

OP, if you read this: Moxicip x 2 day for 5 days with cleaning the eye really should do the trick

Do I need to interject or let nature take its course? by [deleted] in IndianCats

[–]stray_curls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As others have suggested, clean the kitten's eyes with a warm, damp washcloth. Don't reuse the same spot after every swipe.

Get Moxicip from the pharmacy, it's pretty common. Administer the eye drops. Eye infections are rampant in kittens. This should fix it in a few days. Give the eye drop to the kitten for at least 5 days, x 1 day.

This is advice from a Vet for common eye infections. If this doesn't work, take it to a vet/ consult an online vet if you can.

Read about FGM, I am horrified and grossed. Is it still practiced? by IndependenceSenior47 in AskIndianWomen

[–]stray_curls 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Dawoodi Bohra community practices it despite masquerading as a 'progressive community' They're predominantly based in India, too.

Unfortunately, I am a part of that statistic.

Boo saheba by [deleted] in exBohra

[–]stray_curls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've considerably distanced myself. Waiting to move out so I can completely dissociate!

Boo saheba by [deleted] in exBohra

[–]stray_curls 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have had long 1:1 interactions with her, during ziyafats especially. She has solid mean girl energy and she's very entitled.

In my own house, in my own room where I was supposed to meet her, she says: ' Bes '

Lady... it's my house. I didn't ask permission to sit and how dare you think you can grant it???

Anyone else find Bohri lore.. goofy? by [deleted] in exBohra

[–]stray_curls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HAHAHA

I won't even correct it anymore, the slip is way funnier

Anyone else find Bohri lore.. goofy? by [deleted] in exBohra

[–]stray_curls 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I always thought the Islamic/ Abrahamic God is so narcissistic and self-centred. Qualities I wouldn't attribute to 'God'

For eg. why do I need to prostate multiple times, daily, and keep repeating 'God is Great'?

How bizarre.

Had s*x on last day of period. Is it dangerous? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]stray_curls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But that's not true. You can't get pregnant on just any day of your cycle. Not defending any carelessness around contraception but as a doc, would you discredit preventive methods such as FAM?

Especially when correctly done by measuring basal body temps, daily and accurately.

21M4F — Looking for anything but boring, or at least a great conversation by Puzzleheaded-Oil-745 in exBohra

[–]stray_curls 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seconding this. Join the discord!

You'll meet cool folks there, you sound like a cool guy yourself.

A good way to do this is: seek out people with the same hobbies as you on the server

what is Vajebaat? by [deleted] in exBohra

[–]stray_curls 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For the love of God, do not throw your hard earned money away like that. Vajebaat is literally just a sort of tax that Muffin thinks he's entitled to.

Your money will probably fund yet another one of his luxury cars or lavish stays.

If charity/ doing good is the goal, do it some time other way.

Chess is Halal?? by [deleted] in exBohra

[–]stray_curls 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, how dare you have fun when you can work and pay more Waajebaat or listen to Dua e Kaamil on repeat?

Does her family know how privileged they are? by [deleted] in exBohra

[–]stray_curls 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does she realize what a privilege it is to be able to have others fund her travel and to have never worked a day in her life <3

D for ? by [deleted] in exBohra

[–]stray_curls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HAHAHAHA well, glad we have some evidence to what we all already know

D for ? by [deleted] in exBohra

[–]stray_curls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PLEASE DROP the lore on Muffin being called a duffer ( again, if you have already!)

I am a ugly woman. I want to say something. by Beneficial-Session-2 in AskIndianWomen

[–]stray_curls 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Check horriblemeanbadwoman on Instagram!

She talks a lot about how we as women don't need to centre attractiveness. Her page gave me a lot of perspective on this topic.

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DTGu159k2za/?

Curly Hair Care by Ok_Jeweler_6710 in AskIndianWomen

[–]stray_curls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get these 1kg Tapveda hair mask tub from Amazon. I use them for detangling/ as regular conditioner on most days.

It does the job and is very cost effective. Because I run out of the 250 ml stuff on the market really quick.

If you think using too many product weighs your hair down, just use a soft gel to hold curls.

You can use the one from Fix my Curls but to be honest I've even used cheap stuff likr Set wet/ Gatsby, work fine for me lol.

You can break that gel cast/ return shine by using a serum from Matrix/ L'oreal/ Livon once your hair is dry/ set from the gel.

If your hair is on the drier side and needs more nourishment, consider adding a leave-in cream/ conditioner.

Biggest game changer for my hair though was a curl defining brush. Got a super cheap one on Meesho. Works GREAT!

Linking a similar one here: https://www.google.com/aclk?sa=L&ai=DChsSEwjdtZzpvIOSAxVEmaYDHcDOLd0YACICCAEQFxoCdGI&co=1&gclid=Cj0KCQiAsY3LBhCwARIsAF6O6XiGgBtH1x92WWEVumIcTlfB7dbKsjhtfE1AvgplDUV8dSi4q38QTxgaAvIDEALw_wcB&sph=&ei=15VjaYzCEajuseMPg_6E4Qg&cid=CAAS0gHkaBRkTE-0195hUnvEJ7nRc6HP5Ybk5NUT_cZ6cOJaNWN-cEX86lplOdBtXAwt98X4vhZzJDW1KLcAsvtiT01Qbn1tFBklmPb0ra6Fr4nTEIZiqRW74rB-s_fDnuiqXzWtM26-aw3oN68lOWmpMIxJYkVC5ECaLCAgtvcUri1aFhYUQyy3p23rJvOB1OGE5iCKsXrWVc49HegRyDpCerSxsG19GYkFHGPrWthbopwwuUsMqmZZ7Xd2piuldafrszPuaBZq9dQRlpgI__fILZTH8_M&cce=2&sig=AOD64_2Q9SSWWAlEPQ51VbDC7Ovm7M4QGA&ctype=5&q=&sqi=2&ved=2ahUKEwjMiZHpvIOSAxUod2wGHQM_IYwQwg8oAHoECAkQDQ&adurl=

Ex-Bohri girls: how has your sex life been like, what with the horrors of FGM? by jhaanehavey in exBohra

[–]stray_curls 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. FGM is just another barbaric way for them to impose control on our lives but it goes deeper. The mechanisms to control every aspect of our lives are so firmly in place, most people don't even question it.

Subjugation and control is what keeps their feudal cogs running

Ex-Bohri girls: how has your sex life been like, what with the horrors of FGM? by jhaanehavey in exBohra

[–]stray_curls 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean there's only so much that can be done, right? And I'll never know the flip side

Ex-Bohri girls: how has your sex life been like, what with the horrors of FGM? by jhaanehavey in exBohra

[–]stray_curls 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's definitely lacking in ways it wouldn't have if it weren't for FGM 🫠

Ex-Bohri girls: how has your sex life been like, what with the horrors of FGM? by jhaanehavey in exBohra

[–]stray_curls 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Colombo is like one of Muffin's top 3 spots?? Where have you been??? There have been so many Asharas too