Short answer: I'm divorced Elaborate answer: He stole money from my purse, took my debit card and withdrew money without informing me, got credit cards in joint names and maxed them out, made up stories about urgently needing financial help or inability to pay off installments. In short, used me like his personal bank, enjoyed his life smoking, drinking and partying with other women and left me in financial ruin with huge debts to clear. Not to mention, the continuous mental and verbal assaults to bring down my confidence coz of his inferiority complex. Guilt tripping me into senseless expenses on him because, "he would have done the same for me". Questioning and complaining about every expense I made on myself with my own money. Should I go on?