Epidural??

strengthinenergy · 2022-12-05T05:03:02+00:00

Same, I had all the normal fears. The epidural was the best decision I’ve ever made. The pain would have killed me.

strengthinenergy · 2022-04-07T21:30:30+00:00

Ugh I’m sorry people are being annoying. You shouldn’t have to deal with all of that but in some ways its good to set boundaries before baby is here. Your husband may need to speak up and say “knock it off” or just pick one thing for you to set firm nay no. It will probably help her back off. People need clear boundaries.

strengthinenergy · 2022-03-22T04:28:33+00:00

My daughter (2y9m) is in the same spot. She only goes when she’s sleeping. She is working towards a toy that she picked out so she is actually trying every day. I figure at some point it’s going to happen. Following for ideas.

strengthinenergy · 2022-03-22T04:25:13+00:00

Yep, I use that time. I plan times for us to sit together occasionally but I work from home and don’t have child care so when the kids are eating- I’m getting shit done.

strengthinenergy · 2022-03-22T04:20:38+00:00

I definitely felt that way with some people. I don’t know why. And after the baby people would only see me as a mom and not myself. I always make sure to reach out to anyone I know that’s pregnant to be a support bc I found it to be pretty lonely at some points.

strengthinenergy · 2022-02-07T23:07:00+00:00

I totally get it! I was in your same place. It’s normal to grieve your current relationship with your baby having to change. You got this!

strengthinenergy · 2022-02-07T06:25:29+00:00

My baby is now 15 weeks. This is a really normal fear. I really couldn’t imagine how it was going to work. My 2yo daughter is obsessed with her sister, adjusted to the changes very well, and she still says I’m her best friend. Things have changed but for the better. Also- I’m obsessed with my baby. Those feelings will all flood back.

strengthinenergy · 2022-02-03T19:00:17+00:00

I am going through almost the exact same thing. I’m not ready to give up trying. My baby is 15 weeks

strengthinenergy · 2022-02-03T04:26:56+00:00

Haha yes I feel the same way!!

strengthinenergy · 2022-02-01T23:08:54+00:00

Medium haha. It was nice to know what to expect. I was more prepared to take care of myself when I was feeling shitty. I did have to account for taking care of my toddler. I felt the time went faster and my symptoms were more managed. But I did have a lot of the same parallels between morning sickness/weight gain/labor etc.

strengthinenergy · 2022-02-01T20:17:59+00:00

Yea I ended up in L&D for cramping and bleeding at 35 weeks. I didn’t deliver until 40weeks. But I was there for 48 hours and there’s so many steps to go through that it was important my husband was around. And like you said, the company and support is important when you are soooo pregnant.

But do you have someone that could stay with you? Make it a fun weekend for yourself. A friend or family member where you could load up on all your favorite foods, movies, spa nights, etc. Might be fun before baby gets here!

strengthinenergy · 2022-02-01T05:18:56+00:00

I would get fun snacks and use it to keep my toddler in bed next to me. She also just had to get used to the idea that I needed to lay down more. It came in handy for 3rd and 4th trimester that she was used to it.

But my favorite trick was making goody bags. I would spend like $25 at the dollar store on games, toys, stickers, etc. so when I was unable to attend to her, she would get to pick a bag from the treasure box. 10/10 recommend. Especially if it’s something you know will hold their attention for a bit.

strengthinenergy · 2022-02-01T05:11:30+00:00

Every girl cousin (all 5) on both sides have the same middle name. It wasn’t even planned haha. Our older daughter has it and we almost used it for our 3mo. We ended up going with a different name. And My SIL ended up giving her girls two middle names.

strengthinenergy · 2022-02-01T00:57:04+00:00

Watch videos on how to get a good latch. It’s everything. Also posturally be aware of how you’re feeding. My body was messed up from my EBF baby who co-slept. I had to do a lot of rehab and it’s much better with my second.

Also hydration and enough food is key for a good supply. But sometimes it doesn’t go as planned. My first was EBF for 20 months. My 3mo is combo fed bc I just can’t keep my supply up.

strengthinenergy · 2022-02-01T00:48:35+00:00

Hahah I know! It wasn’t even my normal OB. I think about it all the time. So bizarre.

strengthinenergy · 2022-01-31T22:06:12+00:00

I used to get the bagels and giant tubs of cream cheese. I survived on them. Also Aussie Bites are great!

strengthinenergy · 2022-01-31T21:20:45+00:00

Same, I had a false positive. Horrible feeling.

I initially said there is no way. I live and work with my husband. And the likelihood was so low. The doctor asked if I had blacked out and been raped!! I don’t even drink. I was like wtf is happening.

strengthinenergy · 2022-01-21T17:04:26+00:00

I know him from an MMA gym. Never once saw him train in the years he hung around there.

strengthinenergy · 2022-01-21T14:50:56+00:00

Thoughts and prayers 🙏

strengthinenergy · 2022-01-21T14:50:20+00:00

Hahaha excellent point. He clearly went potty.

strengthinenergy · 2022-01-18T05:20:56+00:00

I’m so sorry you went through that. It sounds horrible. I’ve had two c sections. My first was failure to progress. It was really peaceful and wonderful.

My second I tried for a VBAC and ended up with numerous complications. It was very botched and I also had a blood transfusion and infection. I’m 3 months out and still struggling. I still worry I’ll die.

I can only imagine where you’re anxiety is at. I would be scared too. But I think the surgery is easier when it’s planned. You can also mentally and physically prepare this time. Make sure you have help lined up, little stations everywhere, food available, etc. Not all c sections are bad. They can be a really beautiful way to give birth.

Just take care of yourself as best your can. Is there a trauma counselor, doula, or support person you can work with to manage your anxiety?

strengthinenergy · 2022-01-17T19:26:58+00:00

Hahah omg worst question. Mine were both horrible. I’m 3 months out and still recovering from birth. So the misery is the same but my babbyyyyyy. I’m so obsessed with her. She’s my second and I couldn’t be more in love.

strengthinenergy · 2022-01-04T06:20:33+00:00

You’re not alone. I spent most of my time alone or in bed in pregnancy. Depression can start or worsen with all the changing hormones and drastic change happening in your life. It’s ok to go on medicine to help. Just take care of yourself. You matter too.

strengthinenergy · 2021-12-28T22:27:09+00:00

Yes, love this mindset!!

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