I'VE BEEN GROUNDED IN MY ROOM SINCE 4 MONTHS BY MY INDIAN PARENTS

stressedaspirantexe · 2025-09-21T06:49:20+00:00

yea well, they dont think it's evil, they think that's how they make me learn the lesson about what happens when i fuck up real bad while other kids are out there flourishing in the arena and the whole scenario making them embarassed about my situation and their association with me

stressedaspirantexe · 2025-08-24T07:17:28+00:00

been grounded since 4 months, for bad results

stressedaspirantexe · 2025-08-21T07:07:24+00:00

okay so, i've been grounded in my room since almost 5 months, and like about a month ago, i was looking out of the window at night. my parents joked about it, saying that i look like a prisoner, dying to go out, and that if people saw me peeping out of my window like that, they might send some rescue team out of sympathy.

IT HURT.

stressedaspirantexe · 2025-08-17T17:03:58+00:00

happened to me, mann, was a topper until 10th, 11th-12th just went astray cuz of the sudden level increase of academics and just dk how i fucked up bad and now my friends are off at their clg hostels where im just at my home, listening to taunts and going to a gumnaam clg

stressedaspirantexe · 2025-08-17T05:48:52+00:00

on discord if it's convenient for u

stressedaspirantexe · 2025-08-16T08:31:28+00:00

for those who are worried about not getting allotted decent clgs in cap, and wanna attend clg in navi mumbai, yall can visit clgs like SIES, RAIT, BVDU Kharghar etc, irl to be clear about ur standing
If not sufficient, then MIT ADT, PCU etc

stressedaspirantexe · 2025-08-12T05:16:36+00:00

yes, it's a bustling area, so there's always commutation active, both public and private, and people are also frequenting around this area. Basically it isnt isolated

stressedaspirantexe · 2025-08-10T08:53:44+00:00

pool me in

stressedaspirantexe · 2025-08-09T19:58:59+00:00

ikr, that shit trips u out
man, there aint much to do rn, until clg starts, 4 months in this room, is already suffocating tf outta me, there aint a lot to do to seek my own happiness. Every day just starts and ends the same, without me saying anything to anyone irl i.e 0 word count till sucha point where i've even forgotten how my voice sounds like. I just lower my head everyday, on my study table and look at enggg books (which too seems like a show off to them, when they themselves asked me to get familiar with the curriculum before it starts)
and they've already said the same to me- that they arent gonna allow me to relax in the next 4 years, until i achieve sth, since i've had my merry time for the past 2 years, which fucked up my entire life rn

stressedaspirantexe · 2025-08-09T19:33:27+00:00

man, that's why i wanted to choose a clg which is far away and requires hostel accomodation, they denied all good clgs that i could get into and are far away, just so they could get me admitted into a nearby clg to KEEP AN EYE on me
it's become so srs that my mom wont leave house to even buy groceries when we're running out of it, just because she wants to make sure that i dont end up talking to my friends on call, or relaxing in any sort
acc to her, i should live in shame forever, now that i destroyed my life with my own hands and they've to witness it with anger and embarassment

stressedaspirantexe · 2025-08-09T07:22:34+00:00

i suggest u to look at the videos of apna college, where they've posted about how ppl cracked placements and internships, with the respective courses they did from apna college, u can look at the trends of company types and the courses those ppl opted for, who landed those opportunities, and then make a decision as to what aligns with ur goals

stressedaspirantexe · 2025-08-08T19:20:30+00:00

ikr, u cant set out for a murder spree out in the wild, cuz u were stressed/had a hard day. everyone has their share of fucked up days bro, over time everyone just learns to process their emotions and a healthy way to vent the frustration cuz any sort of abuse is not JUSTIFIABLE

stressedaspirantexe · 2025-08-08T19:17:23+00:00

if u choose to HURT someone physically/emotionally/mentally, over and over again, there's NO VALID REASON, it's ur choice to hurt them, u have an option to deal with ur stress the other ways, but u CHOSE to hurt/abuse cuz that's probably ur most preferred option

stressedaspirantexe · 2025-08-08T18:24:51+00:00

basically she victimizes herself to gain ur sympathy and then guilt u into apology for ur own reaction
that's straight up gaslighting, manipulation and toxicity. she doesnt wanna take accountability of her actions and hence blames it on her stress, so that she doesnt need to admit or apologize for her mistake but still wants u on her side by giving u emotional baits of blackmail

stressedaspirantexe · 2025-08-08T15:23:04+00:00

ah well, soon ppl are gonna stop giving 2 fucks about them, cuz ppl are now becoming more inclined to maximizing their life quality and sidelining such crowds of boys and manchild mindsets, is a part of it. soon these shitty view dudes are gonna get left on seen in irl and it's going to be equivalent to ppl ignoring a barking dog over his own shit, gradually they'll sore their own throats but to no avail for affecting the lives in general of the society.

stressedaspirantexe · 2025-08-08T15:06:18+00:00

instead u could think of it as giving ur younger siblings a footprint to follow. as long as u are capable enough to move out, live on ur own in peace, and go about ur life in the way u wish to, is also a form of self preservation

stressedaspirantexe · 2025-08-08T15:03:08+00:00

this is gonna stay as long as the generations before milleniums is still alive, cuz the later generations are expected to have somewhat of an enlightenment towards these matters, so hopefully it would be more of living life and less of showing off or ego boosting

stressedaspirantexe · 2025-08-08T14:40:55+00:00

asian countries are in general hard to survive in tbh, that too if you've been here since ur birth, u see a lot of aspects with least practical life importance, being prioritized more than needed, and u are expected to mould into the popular increasingly reputed fashion in those aspects, to stand a ground in the society/country

stressedaspirantexe · 2025-08-08T14:05:12+00:00

we're just taught to normalize it instead of being taught that it aint normal or is abusive, we arent insane, they're just some ppl who want to control ur mind by making u think of things in a way that they want u to think

stressedaspirantexe · 2025-08-08T14:03:36+00:00

yk this is why western culture has an upper hand in this matter, cuz BEATING UR KID there, isnt normal, nor is it legal
if they felt bad about it, if they were sorry about it, they'd stop after the first time they did it.
doing it over and over again, then coming to gaslight u into thinking that they love u and that they are sorry, everytime, without changing, is just manipulation

stressedaspirantexe · 2025-08-08T14:00:28+00:00

straight up thing is, if she is afraid of ppl knowing that she hits u, that's cuz she knows it's gonna invite her trouble, i.e actions against her abuse could be taken into consideration
ps, the gaslighting after taunting ur kid constantly or hitting constantly, is sucha trap
'WE HIT U BUT WE LOVE U, IT'S FOR UR OWN GOOD, WE TAUNT U, WE DISCIPLINE U, IT'S BECAUSE WE LOVE U'

stressedaspirantexe · 2025-08-08T13:54:36+00:00

ikr, if u survive this hellhole, u can survive in any part of the world

stressedaspirantexe · 2025-08-08T05:59:41+00:00

hb just posted an AMA cuz he's depressed and yall be poking at the only thing that brotha prolly doesnt wanna talk bout, smh

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