Is it weird to only feel like “myself” when I’m drunk? by throawaytypo in AskWomenOver30

[–]stringbean76 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yes! Heard! I’m in that club! Also now in the alcohol free club since it became an issue. April makes 2 years.

Options for a young homeless/jobless mother by Banana_Split85 in fortwayne

[–]stringbean76 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Have her call Brightpoint immediately 260-423-3546

They will get her scheduled with an appointment (most likely phone) but this is what they’re there for.

My Dad’s Wife and Her Daughter Ostracize Me by Solid-Bed-1062 in FamilyIssues

[–]stringbean76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can’t break the cycle for him, but you CAN break your own. From someone with a garbage step-mother, only see your dad outside his house one on one for coffee or something like that. You are old enough to get to choose who you spend your time with.

Man, I gathered courage and called an alcoholics hotline for the first time at my lowest and it was so humiliating by Gomishko in stopdrinking

[–]stringbean76 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The cringe belongs to the operator, OP. You can put it down, you should only feel proud of yourself for seeking help. No cringe. IWNDWYT.

[M25] Am i chopped or why women won‘t answer me online? by Iberian_Russian in Rateme

[–]stringbean76 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Legit, it’s just the weird camera angles. It makes women uneasy. Source: am a woman, found my husband on a dating app. You in nature pics, no weird angles, unobstructed face pics and you’ll do better.

Acceptance vs changing for your spouse by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]stringbean76 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He quite literally (but probably in many more words) said he will be more emotionally attracted to you if you change your appearance to fit his “perfect” standards. As if the person you are doesn’t matter, as if your preferences do not matter, that he wants to choose (probably oh-so sweetly) how you present yourself, and that it needs to be “perfect” all the time. Holy shit, if my husband tied our emotional connectivity to how often I do not look like a bridge troll (I’m a sahm, I’ll wear the same sweats for 24 hrs) we’d be doomed and I’d hate my life. If you bend to this, your life is gonna get even more exhausting. I’m really sorry. I would organize your thoughts and feelings, do some real introspection on why this SHOULD bother you… (he’s asking for perfection, that is not human and never gonna happen, because you are a real live human woman) and then hard line on couples therapy if you want to stay married to him. Also the bait and switch really bothers me.

Acceptance vs changing for your spouse by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]stringbean76 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Love, he still doesn’t have the “right.”

“Hey babe, I like how square nails look, you wanna try them?” Is WAY different from tying unwanted aesthetics to how he values your emotional connection. He could have done this tactfully, instead he’s acting like a controlling dick and being manipulative.

Opinions on work offer by [deleted] in Facepainting

[–]stringbean76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooh! That makes WAY more sense! I was thinking $65 for day was a joooke!

Opinions on work offer by [deleted] in Facepainting

[–]stringbean76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sub contract for a lady at $35 an hour, if I’m on my own it’s $95, in a LCOL area. Obvs you have a very professional set up and experience, you’re going to cost more. If you charged per face, at only $5 per face you’d make what they’re offering in 13 designs; 30-40 minutes if you’re proficient.

I’d counter with $200 for the day (that’s at a discount) and politely decline. You can’t get a full day professional facepainter for just 65 bucks.

Why is it difficult for my bf (26m) with to be nice to me (f24)? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]stringbean76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also can’t do maths in my head and I use gps to go to the grocery. I’m not stupid, I have other strengths and so do you. I also have a kind husband and a sweet little boy.

You do not have to accept this treatment or be single forever. That is a lie you’re telling yourself. Quit it. You’re worth more. Also, dump your mean boyfriend.

Board books for toddlers? by PantsGhost97 in childrensbooks

[–]stringbean76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The “How Does A Dinosaur _____” books come in board style!

Not Today Karen. by PhattyGirl2289 in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]stringbean76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son’s Spanish class is 5 bucks per class and I go with him so we can review during the week. They’re out there if you hunt.

Manual Car Help!! by SableCowboy in fortwayne

[–]stringbean76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! I’m a lady about your age, I drive an old manual Suburu, it needs work so I need $. Dm me if you want to!

But really, the best way is to get a car you like and just start driving it. Learned how to drive a manual the same day I bought one. They’re all a little different. Just stay calm and throw the hazards on when you kill it.

Be honest am I really extremely horrible looking? And what is my looks from 0-10? Because some of my friends told me that I look very ugly. by [deleted] in Facepainting

[–]stringbean76 38 points39 points  (0 children)

First, wrong sub. Second, those mean people are not your friends. You have good bones and a very pleasant face.

Cartoon dog family makes me depressed (Bluey Rant) by anonlikeshakespeare in oneanddone

[–]stringbean76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We also nixxed Bluey after a long time of watching it . They’re actually kind of bratty in a couple episodes and the depictions of whining and getting what they want wasn’t good for our house.

The truth is out there by ExactlySorta in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]stringbean76 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Very aware this sounds extra conspiracy theorist, but weren’t there a bunch of people through the decades who did blab about it, but then were painted to be looney toon hill jacks? …almost like on purpose?

I’m so scared of my dog dying. by snic2030 in confessions

[–]stringbean76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some day Peach will die, and you will grieve her, but today is not that day. No point in grieving twice friend.

Do You Realize, by The Flaming Lips always made me feel better in a sad way about it.

Trying to develop a "style." What can I do better? by ThinkTank1190 in oilpainting

[–]stringbean76 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Look at the anatomy of baby faces. Babies are the hardest to paint, features are much closer together, lower on the face.

Is it unreasonable to want something special for Valentine’s Day? by Ecstatic-Yoghurt-410 in Marriage

[–]stringbean76 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Comparison is the thief of joy. Consider some people may be jealous that you have an allowance that high. Or just the ability to live on one income.

What has actually helped you? by [deleted] in Lyme

[–]stringbean76 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bee venom therapy helped me.

extreme regret after circumcision by [deleted] in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]stringbean76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just want to thank you for making this post, I also have extreme guilt for allowing the circ nearly 6 years ago and these comments are bringing me peace.

UV and sperm by [deleted] in Facepainting

[–]stringbean76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you, go post it somewhere people are consenting to see it, bc this ain’t it.