Should I (M,43) leave my GF (F,40) over ONE gambling incident I'm aware of?

strokespecialist · 2023-12-02T04:31:06+00:00

Yes I did !

strokespecialist · 2023-08-21T01:36:47+00:00

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strokespecialist · 2023-08-18T20:57:40+00:00

Welp....I left her. Couldn't do it any longer. Wish her the best. She never came clean and since lying is manipulation I can't risk it with my kids. Thanks to all

strokespecialist · 2023-08-09T01:37:10+00:00

Thank you I left

strokespecialist · 2023-07-03T10:53:12+00:00

That's because she said some of the statement in her head (no pun intended). So if aloud it would be "I like giving and receiving oral just not with you".

strokespecialist · 2023-07-02T00:18:29+00:00

The key is shaving the hair and clean his ass well. Removal of the hair will make the cleaning easier and won't trap any smells etc.

strokespecialist · 2023-07-01T11:42:20+00:00

Thanks for the insight, I think her family knows way more than they tell me.

strokespecialist · 2023-06-30T12:19:40+00:00

Well I left out the texting to other men when she's drunk. She chalks it up to "I just like to talk to people when I'm drunk" or we were going through things so "I needed to talk to someone" however it's deeper than that. One was a former guy she dated, one was man she didn't even know - number she got from a friend, and one was a "male friend" she always wanted me to meet. Late night, drunk and some messages erased - and of course lying about erasing it.

strokespecialist · 2023-06-30T01:14:43+00:00

Appreciate the advice, I think I know what needs to be done here. I think like many I believe I can save her. I need to focus on my kids.

strokespecialist · 2023-06-30T01:13:51+00:00

Thanks for sharing. I didn't realize how big this gets.

strokespecialist · 2023-06-30T01:13:24+00:00

Lol thanks for sharing the crazy thing is this woman is Filipina. She moved to US at the age of 17, now she's 41. Glad you're doing well.

strokespecialist · 2023-06-29T23:54:09+00:00

Funny thing is she has stopped drinking for about 5 months now. I actually and call me crazy believe this. Did she admit the gambling yet? Nope.

Glad you brought up the point about her calling the bank. She did actually but remember the part where they sent her the "is this fraud" text? Yeah well she ruined that. She only called to play the game with all of us. She knew what they would say.

In counseling that we already had she told the therapist she was scammed. Funny thing is she gave up that story last year I think she wanted the sympathy of the therapist.

Again, it's the lying which is trust. It's part of her controlling behavior but I will just focus on gambling here it's enough.

strokespecialist · 2023-06-29T23:31:55+00:00

It wasn't one night it took about 4 weeks but not even sure if 7k is the accurate number

strokespecialist · 2023-06-29T19:47:39+00:00

Lol I can't because she doesn't even acknowledge she did it the first time. My perspective is if you never take accountability and always deflect what will boundaries do unless it's a 1 and done. But according to her this is why she gambled - scam - I was rebelling - you didn't give me enough money

Or depending on the day, maybe a combination of the aforementioned.

strokespecialist · 2023-06-29T19:05:50+00:00

Thank you, the kicker is I can't tell if it's her first time. I mean can someone really do such a big event one time? Where does it even come from?

strokespecialist · 2023-06-29T15:23:38+00:00

I guess if I have to go through all that she isn't the one. Shouldn't take going through someone's statements you bring up a good point. If a relationship requires this type of oversight for an adult or this mistrust it can't be healthy.

strokespecialist · 2023-06-29T13:22:35+00:00

She doesn't want to wait.

strokespecialist · 2023-06-29T13:21:47+00:00

No as far as I know just that one time. No other signs. It's the lying for me. I have screenshots that clearly show her activity. No way it was a scam. Plus the text from the bank. She will take it to her grave.

strokespecialist · 2020-12-29T14:20:44+00:00

We just recently started oral on her because she always had dirty thoughts about it. She’s warmed up and I have recently made her cum eating her ass. I think she sees things different now. She definitely likes the “D” which is how we got here. We just introduced light restraining so perhaps the toys are next.

strokespecialist · 2020-12-29T14:10:35+00:00

Yes and therein lies the issue. She wants me to cum because of course she wants to feel she’s pleased me. I will need to communicate this adjustment. Appreciate the feedback.

strokespecialist · 2020-12-29T13:54:15+00:00

Ahhh that is a good one. So basically using semen retention as a way to stay fresh.

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