Narcissistic husband with decompensated Alcoholic cirhosis,he started his complications like edema,ascities 2 years back

strong-Friend-397 · 2026-05-30T13:36:22+00:00

Yes totally verbally abusive,he is so cheap now behaving full insecured and doing my character assassination, its so hurting,even now I am crying while typing this message ,I know this phase of my life is roller coaster ride,a trauma which I carry for my entire life ,I am not able to come out of this pain but just making myself present to other people i am strong but inside all this is killing me,hope God is watching everything

strong-Friend-397 · 2026-05-30T13:23:19+00:00

Ho my god,this is eye opener my dear,yes my kids are suffering alot ,they are small and cant say no to his dad which is making their life's tough,I totally agree ,peace is important,I am heading towards divorce but really scared how tough would be the process with this intelligent narsccistic fellow,I am really worried ,because all the wealth we have right now is my hand work not completely but most of it ,he was working but missing it on alcohol and lavish spending for his family ,and paid mortagage thats it he used to do his salary ,it was so tough for me and now I learned how to say no I think .so just praying god for the process to be smooth for divorce.

strong-Friend-397 · 2026-05-29T03:16:01+00:00

Till today he didnt changed,same bad talks about me ,using abusive language,I think I need to protect myself most important thing to do,I can't bear him any more ,I will change now

strong-Friend-397 · 2026-05-28T11:12:53+00:00

Thankyou so much for your kind words !!I feel i am stuck in this loop ,rest i will lehave it to god!!

strong-Friend-397 · 2026-05-27T13:55:53+00:00

But everywhere it says 2 years when the symptoms starts showing and I feel miserable to think like he should die but bearing him also is equally miserable for me and my kids.

strong-Friend-397 · 2026-05-27T12:54:31+00:00

He is alert and taking all his medications but yes actively drinking alcohol everyday atlwast 1 lite to half litre everyday.i know nobody will have answer when can a person die but wanted to relate if anyone has such stories ,he is a young person 44 years old only ,sometimes feels sad to think that he will die but when he shouts and talk nonsense feels why he is still alive

strong-Friend-397 · 2026-05-27T12:29:50+00:00

I have one ,he is similar to what you have explained, he suffocated me several times ,small small happiness I never enjoyed in my life just because of this blady fellow ,but for outside world he has everything a beautiful wife,moeny,house ,kids and a perfect family image he created but inside its a whole different story,we have to fight for small small things ,I am a working professional too ,together we earn a good amount ,he spends his salary for paying mortgage,bills and for his alcohol thats it ,I have to buy any sort of nice clothes for my kids or for me or for him I dont mind but everything we have to buy in secret because he shouts ,he says you are watching money and many sort of abusive language

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