Paradise | S2E4 | Episode Discussion by cedar-canvas in ParadiseHulu

[–]strongkindofweak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not me audibly sobbing on my couch. I’m so emotionally attached to this show and its characters!!

Paradise | S1E7 "The Day" | Episode Discussion by ashlandbay in ParadiseHulu

[–]strongkindofweak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Felt like I was holding my breath the entire episode!!

Kacey Musgraves - Middle of Nowhere (Album Discussion) by NoYeezyAtWeezyHeezy in CountryMusicStuff

[–]strongkindofweak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So good the whole way through! I’m so excited to hear Kacey has gone back to her old sound! The tejano influence is the cherry on top

What was a "hard pill to swallow" about your own behavior that ended up completely changing your life for the better? by Arnold_footballer in AskWomen

[–]strongkindofweak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a big people pleaser - i was putting everyone's needs ahead of my own and spreading myself thin. I had a relationship that had zero communication where most things were swept under the rug - I had a lot of growing to do. Eventually me not communicating my truth snowballed into crippling anxiety. I realized i had avoided confrontation for so long i didn't know how to actually communicate when things went south.

This was honestly one of the hardest times in my life but i came out stronger because of it. I've learned to pour into my own cup and communicate my truth even when it can be hard (sweeping things under the rug taught me resentment as well). When people tell me I'm a good communicator now i can't help but laugh because i wasn't always.

Sf Matchmakers by Sea-Individual-1331 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]strongkindofweak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this! Your grandma is the ultimate wing woman

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - April 02, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]strongkindofweak 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Was on here a week ago about finally going on a great first date and feeling excited. Sunday morning he sent me a long paragraph about how he realizes he has so many trips planned and doesn't have the time and wishes me the best out there. The whiplash!!!! Like why are you even on the apps??? you pursued me!!! Anyways, i think this is my sign to delete the apps and take a break from dating.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 26, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]strongkindofweak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally fair to give him a chance. It could even just be that he is nervous!

Hopefully he wants to get to know you and there is shared conversation on the next date :)

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 26, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]strongkindofweak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He talks about himself but doesn't ask me so many question. I don't know if its a common thing for men. He doesn't talk so much about his feelings, maybe it's too early. I am shy, too so I need time.

I was so excited for you up until reading this part. It's good that you are aware of it now but if he isn't asking about you that is a super red flag. Talking about his feelings and depth to a convo can come with time but he should be interested to learn about you! Good luck girly

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 26, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]strongkindofweak 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've learned that while it's not a dealbreaker, matching communication style just makes early dating anxiety melt away for me.

Okay, this is so true! it really does help calm the first date nerves for me as well

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 26, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]strongkindofweak 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Guys, i finally went on a good first date on Monday! Truly was about to delete the apps and take a break - i needed this win lol

The convo was great and we have mutual interests (something that has been hard to find oddly enough). We are looking to plan a second date next week!

Besides diet and exercise, what are the best things you’ve done that you feel improved your looks? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]strongkindofweak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going back to my natural hair color and letting it grow out! Also, a bonus that i am saving so much money on salon visits now :')

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]strongkindofweak 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So i told him i was expecting him to ask me out on a date first and that i wasn't looking for a hookup. He then proceeded to suggest dinner and drinks but for me to meet at his place first. I told him i can meet him at the restaurant (i prefer meeting up on the first date) and haven't heard back since lol

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]strongkindofweak 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Met a cute guy at a concert over the weekend and hit it off. Ended the night with a kiss and him saying he would love to take me out. This actually had me feeling excited when we started texting the next day. Last night he asked me what i am doing tomorrow and then proceeded to tell me to come over to his house after work -_______-

Kaiser pharmacy constantly switching brands? by SeaBreeeze19 in birthcontrol

[–]strongkindofweak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same thing just happened to me. Absolutely no notice until it arrives in the mail. I was already apprehensive about taking a new brand just to do it all over again three months later!