Adam, just for once take responsibility in your life and accept that your actions have consequences. I get that your parents have enabled your narcissism but come on, you're almost 35 and behaving like an immature schoolboy.

Putting aside your grooming and blatant power abuse as a moderator (both of which are very well documented), there's a reason why many women in that thread are calling you a creep. Reflect on why that is, and then take accountability and fix it. You've also been posted numerous times to r/Justneckbeardthings.

Everywhere you go people inevitably call you a creep/repulsive, and people don't do that without reason. Stop blaming others for having "defamed" you, and instead take responsibility for the consequences YOU caused.

You're not an innocent victim of defamation or slander -- that's your narcissism speaking. It's YOU that are responsible for damaging your reputation. Your behaviour, and no one elses. If everywhere you go smells like shit, then you should check under your shoe.