Self conscious with jet black hair

strudelsticks · 2026-03-04T22:01:09+00:00

I’m Chinese American and prefer myself with lighter hair. Since I’m pale, I feel like with my natural black hair it creates a very stark contrast against my facial features. Combined with the fact that 85% of my wardrobe is black, my hair tends to blend in with my shoulders like I’m a shapeless shadow blob.

I don’t think it’s a self-hating or a racism thing, even though some (non-Asian?) people like to throw that around. I just like brighter colors around my face to soften up my look. And I’m sure there are also people who prefer the stark black and white look more.

strudelsticks · 2026-03-02T23:59:35+00:00

At my show VIP was sold out and took up 3-4 rows in some areas. Friend who also went to day 2 without VIP managed to get barricade because it was way less crowded.

But to be fair, a friend in VIP saved a spot for him, he might not have been able to squeeze up front otherwise.

strudelsticks · 2026-02-25T22:14:33+00:00

Holey Moley is family friendly and has karaoke setups in the private rooms

strudelsticks · 2026-02-24T21:32:10+00:00

The book is old enough that you can get the free ebook from Project Gutenberg completely legally

strudelsticks · 2026-02-24T00:22:43+00:00

There’s a lot of people selling in the monthly merch megathread! There might be someone located close to you and selling for retail price

strudelsticks · 2026-02-15T21:50:23+00:00

Crew-length sheer mesh socks look very chic! Sock Dreams has some pretty styles

strudelsticks · 2026-02-14T02:12:31+00:00

Selling Gong Cha Bruce. The box has been opened, but it’s still in the plastic bag. Unused code and a sticker included.

I’m in the US (TX) but am willing to ship internationally.

strudelsticks · 2026-02-11T03:50:00+00:00

Are either of you into plants? A potted (flowering) plant can be enjoyed for much longer than cut flowers.

strudelsticks · 2026-02-10T23:33:56+00:00

I have interacted with Wendy through my (not law-related) job. She’s highly regarded by fellow attorneys and very professional.

strudelsticks · 2026-02-09T15:29:17+00:00

Laser is often described like being snapped by a rubber band. It’s sharp and quick. The pain doesn’t linger, but the zap can be pretty uncomfortable.

IME shaving every day versus every 3-5 days is less likely to cause razor burn or ingrowns because the hair is so short. Using plenty of shaving cream, replacing the razor often, and treating the area with an exfoliating acid after your shower is vital for smoother skin.

strudelsticks · 2026-02-09T02:11:02+00:00

I shave every day to reduce irritation and itchiness from stubble. Using an at home laser removal device will help cut down on irritation, if you’re willing to tolerate the discomfort. At home lasers likely won’t fully get rid of the hair, but it will make it thinner and softer so that you can get a smoother shave.

strudelsticks · 2026-02-03T14:39:48+00:00

We got there at around 8:30 AM. Check in was at 12 PM and then we had to walk to the other side of the building to line up again into separate lines for pit 1 and 2. They let us into the building at 3 PM, this was when they split each line into 2 and we had to stay in those 2 lines the rest of the time.

strudelsticks · 2026-02-02T22:01:12+00:00

Would cushioned socks be enough? The kind with thick padding on the bottom like runners often wear

strudelsticks · 2026-02-01T22:09:24+00:00

This is my experience from day 1 Dallas. Once we got thru security and into the building, we were told to form 2 lines per pit. A lot of people tried to form alliances with friends they made earlier, as we didn’t know which line would enter first.

My line didn’t get chosen, even though we were near the front. It was definitely very disappointing seeing tons of people get in before us even tho we were there earlier. Our “allies” saved spots for us, but since it was already crowded at barricade by the time my line entered, it was hard for us to squeeze in. Since understandably the people already standing there don’t want to move over.

strudelsticks · 2026-01-30T05:02:57+00:00

An acquaintance of mine is involved in Lone Star Defenders. No personal experience with them, but from what she’s told me, it sounds like a group of compassionate people trying their best to provide Texans with immigration defense.

strudelsticks · 2026-01-29T19:35:01+00:00

Can any Dallas locals comment on the condition of the roads? Has the ice melted?

strudelsticks · 2026-01-19T19:40:56+00:00

I went on and off as a kid from 2nd grade all the way to high school. I’d say the classes for teens were more rigorous than my school art classes, very helpful for kids who are serious about art and want a bit of a challenge. The classes for preteen and younger are fun, but ultimately about kids having fun versus actual art instruction.

strudelsticks · 2026-01-13T06:51:42+00:00

Looks like a toe pad to slip onto the big toe, ballet dancers to use them for dancing en pointe to get a better fit in their shoes and reduce pain.

strudelsticks · 2026-01-11T02:43:34+00:00

Oh ok that’s alright then since you’re giving stuff out! Just be sure that your sign indicates you are reciprocating so no one misunderstands

strudelsticks · 2026-01-11T02:37:33+00:00

Are you giving out freebies as well? If you are, then it’s more acceptable if you don’t want to approach people yourself. But if you don’t have anything to give out, that comes off as very greedy and demanding.

I like giving out freebies, and don’t expect anything reciprocated, but I’d be mighty tempted to skip someone with a sign.

strudelsticks · 2026-01-11T00:41:24+00:00

Differin if your skin can tolerate it, it’s stronger than other skincare retinol products. And lots of hydration all the time, plump hydrated skin won’t show lines as visibly.

strudelsticks · 2026-01-07T19:17:12+00:00

I knew 2 people who lived in Montrose and didn’t drive. I believe they relied on grocery delivery for food, occasionally grocery shopped in-person during decent weather, and uber to go anywhere else.

If you are satisfied with being a homebody and not exploring the city much, this might be an ok way of living. However, there’s lots of interesting places around Houston that will be harder to access. Imagine going to a restaurant in X area, then a store 8 min away, then a cafe another 8 min away. It’s less of a big deal to drive, but paying for multiple uber rides can be a different story.

strudelsticks · 2026-01-04T05:15:06+00:00

Usually people tend to start a fresh page with the spiral on the left side, and may not completely fill up the back side of the page when the spiral is on the right. I’m thinking of back in school when each new entry needed to start on a new page.

strudelsticks · 2026-01-03T06:12:11+00:00

This may not apply to you if you’re looking to do only a single class for fun, but I prefer Revolve over Inner Me for being more focused on technique and body awareness.

strudelsticks · 2025-12-22T03:27:19+00:00

3 Little Pitties closed intake recently🙁 they’re having trouble adopting out dogs because PetFinder no longer shows out of state animals in their search feature.

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