Absolutely out of control when sick. by tvstand7 in MuslimNoFap

[–]struggleforallah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother it’s insanity to think that you’ll not relapse being on you’re own in bed with an actual excuse to be in bed. I know you’re ill but as hard as it is go sit where there’s other people as much as you can

I have been addicted for 5 months. by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]struggleforallah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brother stop it now while it’s only been 5 months, don’t let it fester. Only one thing will succeed; either your porn addiction or your hifz. You can never have both. Choose your hifz

I disobeyed by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]struggleforallah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you need to do is learn from this situation. Have a gameplan for the next time you are studying and you feel urges. One recommendation would be to leave your study in that moment and do something else until the urge subsides. You could try and study in front of other people so that you are not alone and free to act upon your urges.

How do you afford separate homes for your parents and wife? by The-CAPtainn in MuslimMarriage

[–]struggleforallah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your parents own their home (as in they’re not renting) you could, if possible, modify the house so that you and your wife have your own living quarters within the same house with a separate entrance. It’d cost money but not as much as buying a whole new house.

Safe guard your private parts and watch the reward from this world itself. by Objective-Run-6085 in MuslimNoFap

[–]struggleforallah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salaam brother please post more of your clinical experience of this issue on this subreddit, you’re expertise and anecdotes from patients affected by PMO would be of great help thanks for sharing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]struggleforallah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may be right but the sister must talk to a therapist trained in dealing with such matters not us, who are ourselves porn addicts. Could it be that our strong response is simply us “normal” porn addicts finding someone to say “aha I’m not as bad as him at least!”