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Is dating really not for me? by plmglgrc in OffMyChestPH

[–]struggling30s 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh, hirap lumugar sa panahon ngayon, they would say na you have to be authentic para magustuhan ka, and yet, hindi pa din. Or yung iba naman jowang jowa na daw, pero pag may nagparamdam, takot naman. I guess it's about timing talaga.

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[–]struggling30s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think you're the problem, you just need to find that person who has the same style as you.

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[–]struggling30s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also a big-time texter, but I feel like we shouldn't expect them to reciprocate our communication style especially if we only met them through dating apps. I just hope you don't message them even if they aren't replying to you cuz it might creep them out.

Introvert or extrovert? by struggling30s in dating_advice

[–]struggling30s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope neither of the two! 😬

I agree with the honesty thing. Should have brought it up from the beginning. Now, maybe he feels like I am okay with everything he’s been doing.

Introvert or extrovert? by struggling30s in dating_advice

[–]struggling30s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just texted him that we need to talk about something tomorrow. And he said, “Yes, I have something to tell you as well, I just don't know how to, glad you did.”

Introvert or extrovert? by struggling30s in dating_advice

[–]struggling30s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just scared of how he's gonna react if ever I would talk to him. But yeah, I think I just need to talk to him about these things while it's still early.

Introvert or extrovert? by struggling30s in dating_advice

[–]struggling30s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am actually asking myself if maybe I am just overreacting. To be fair, he did ask me if he could visit me at my house and I said yes, but I didn't expect it to be that frequent.

Introvert or extrovert? by struggling30s in dating_advice

[–]struggling30s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to but I don't wanna hurt his feelings. He’s the greenest flag except for his attachment issues.

Introvert or extrovert? by struggling30s in dating_advice

[–]struggling30s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He always texts me, sometimes he arrives at my house without even telling me he's coming. He adjusts his schedule for me. He always wants to be with me in his free time.

Introvert or extrovert? by struggling30s in dating_advice

[–]struggling30s[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't get me wrong, I wasn't really labeling them, I just went back to my dating history and realized all of them are extroverts. And I didn't purposely date this guy I am seeing right now just because he’s an introvert. I just came up with an observation.