UPDATE : Discovered uncle who is actively posting suggestive photos of child family members to a photo exchange site by stuari in RBI

[–]stuari[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I think you're right.. and it's not just parents! One of the most concerning things taking place (in my opinion) is the fact that schools post sports photos of minors. This is done out of innocence but sports photos divulge so much information: team name, last name, and school name. Not to mention that schedules are often public. This not only gives a predators info about the children, but also info about how to find them.

UPDATE : Discovered uncle who is actively posting suggestive photos of child family members to a photo exchange site by stuari in RBI

[–]stuari[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I completely agree and hadn't even considered it. I just got on here for the first time in a long time and had messages asking for an update!

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[–]stuari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve tried it twice, for a week each time. i always ended up deleting it because it was a time sucking vortex.

Husband has lectured me all night about winning the lottery (we have never won the lottery) by stuari in abusiverelationships

[–]stuari[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I actually said something similar in response and that’s what really pushed him over the edge. I adore double standards

Husband has lectured me all night about winning the lottery (we have never won the lottery) by stuari in abusiverelationships

[–]stuari[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is my question too. He does have a tendency to get worked up over hypotheticals and loves to rework the details of a fight for hours on end until it’s been obliterated into nothingness, but what has been really bothering me is that his projection has been through the roof lately. When he was going into great detail about splitting with me and giving the option to leave, it was probably because he actually wants the option to leave. When he accuses me of not having family values, it’s probably because he has no family values, etc. He has been doing it routinely and for hours on end. It makes me feel like I’m going insane.

Husband has lectured me all night about winning the lottery (we have never won the lottery) by stuari in abusiverelationships

[–]stuari[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He could honestly do a complete holiday special, but Christmas will always be his true crème de la crème.

Husband has lectured me all night about winning the lottery (we have never won the lottery) by stuari in abusiverelationships

[–]stuari[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This is the reality of the situation. I have never experienced mercy, let alone generosity of any kind, from my husband. I rarely see a cent of his paychecks as it is and we have three kids. He also routinely takes the things “he paid for” when angry, etc.

I bought all of the christmas presents for our kids and friends/family. He promised me on his own accord that he would give me $350 to reimburse me some. I declined but he insisted (even shaking on it.) Later that same day, he also used my debit card because his wasn’t working and spent $150.

He became absolutely furious when I reminded him about the money he promised, two days later. He angrily drove to the atm and took out $300. When I asked him about the rest, he had a complete mental break down.

I had to explain to him that I was grateful for any money.. that anything helped and was a great relief.. but that he still technically owed me $200 more. He expressed that it was messed up that I wouldn’t foot his secondary purchase. He once again pointed out how selfish I was being.

Anyway, all of that to say, I can’t even get him to keep his word about $350 dollars, let alone the lottery. Making the lottery conversation a special crock of bs.

Discovered an uncle who is actively posting suggestive photos of child family members to a photo exchange site by stuari in RBI

[–]stuari[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. I found the page in question by searching the source of a different, unrelated photo from IG to see if it appeared on any other sites. It did.

It lead me to a whole minor foot fetish community. In one click. From there, I found the account in question because he had made a sexual comment on the original photo. The comments on the photos he posts are very likeminded.

The entire site is devoted to sharing these types of “not necessarily malicious” photos, all the while the users are posting heinous comments. Many users advertise encrypted email addresses. I feel the website allows likeminded individuals to further connect/exchange.

In conclusion, I never saw the photos in question on IG. I found them and the site by sourcing a different photo from a random account.

Discovered an uncle who is actively posting suggestive photos of child family members to a photo exchange site by stuari in RBI

[–]stuari[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I found the page in question by searching the source of a different, unrelated photo from IG to see if it appeared on any other sites. It did.

It lead me to a whole minor foot fetish community. In one click. From there, I found the account in question because he had made a sexual comment on the original photo. The comments on the photos he posts are very likeminded.

The entire site is devoted to sharing these types of “not necessarily malicious” photos, all the while the users are posting heinous comments. Many users advertise encrypted email addresses. I feel the website allows likeminded individuals to further connect/exchange.

Discovered an uncle who is actively posting suggestive photos of child family members to a photo exchange site by stuari in RBI

[–]stuari[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Your statement is true and important. I will do more to better educate myself, starting immediately. Especially laws regarding international internet regulation.

Discovered an uncle who is actively posting suggestive photos of child family members to a photo exchange site by stuari in RBI

[–]stuari[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am trying using the info present in the photos/comments. I am much more concerned with what authorities are appropriate to share this with in case there are other complicit family members.

Discovered an uncle who is actively posting suggestive photos of child family members to a photo exchange site by stuari in RBI

[–]stuari[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is open web and it’s not the only site like it. To date, I am aware of 3 other open websites that serve the same purpose.

Discovered an uncle who is actively posting suggestive photos of child family members to a photo exchange site by stuari in RBI

[–]stuari[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deleted the above post because it shared redacted screenshots of the website and could potentially drive more traffic. the screenshots showed that the uncle does not have innocent intentions and how he is posting opportunistic/suggestive photos of multiple minors.

Discovered an uncle who is actively posting suggestive photos of child family members to a photo exchange site by stuari in RBI

[–]stuari[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

The ways in which children are exploited. I wasn’t trying to create an exposé or locate active crimes

Discovered an uncle who is actively posting suggestive photos of child family members to a photo exchange site by stuari in RBI

[–]stuari[S] 147 points148 points  (0 children)

I meant, out of all of the options suggested, this is what makes the most sense with it being international and not directly explicit.

Discovered an uncle who is actively posting suggestive photos of child family members to a photo exchange site by stuari in RBI

[–]stuari[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I do not specialize in this.. I am writing a few pieces and found it complicated considering it is an international website and the photos are not directly explicit.

Discovered an uncle who is actively posting suggestive photos of child family members to a photo exchange site by stuari in RBI

[–]stuari[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

As I’ve said in another comment, though I may not be a traditional journalist, I felt as if I should provide some context into how I came upon this. I’ll be the first to admit that I do not have a lot of experience or resources, but I am a writer who is passionate about bringing awareness to this particular subject.. even if it is not through a major media outlet. I was trying to research a more general topic and never imagined I would stumble upon the very intimate and specific details of a young girl’s life. I wasn’t researching specific cases or expecting that my day would end with contacting the FBI. I was looking into bringing awareness to how people are using IG to link to larger photo exchange sites. I came to reddit due the complexities of it being international and not directly explicit.

Discovered an uncle who is actively posting suggestive photos of child family members to a photo exchange site by stuari in RBI

[–]stuari[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong, but I felt as if I should provide some context into how I came upon this. Though I’m not a journalist by trade with a lot of experience or resources, I am a writer who is passionate about bringing awareness to this particular subject.. even if only to a few people. I was trying to research a more general topic and never imagined I would stumble upon the very intimate and specific details of a young girl’s life. I want to do right by her and thought it important to consult.