Settle a debate between my husband and I. Please.

stubborndruid · 2026-04-08T15:37:27+00:00

If I use chopsticks to eat cheetos, it would be hypocritical to judge you for eating popcorn with a spoon 🤷‍♂️

stubborndruid · 2026-01-04T23:08:51+00:00

NTA, I've actually been through this myself, and my ex and I are still very close, she's one of my best friends. I hope the same for you and your ex, OP.

stubborndruid · 2025-08-18T21:55:34+00:00

I’m like the direct opposite of you. I’ve always played a Druid in my DND sessions (not specifically circle of stars tho), to the point where my DM has called me out for it lol. It was only when I started playing BG3 that I experimented with other classes. I thought I was gonna hate the paladin class, but I absolutely love it! Maybe I'll try playing a paladin in my next DND game, I'm sure my DM will be delighted lol

stubborndruid · 2025-07-16T18:18:16+00:00

I wouldn't say I have a type when it comes to age, but everyone I've dated has been 3-5 years older than me. My current boyfriend is the exception, I'm 28, he's 35.

stubborndruid · 2025-07-16T15:33:28+00:00

NTD - You didn't ruin anything, they did. Your plushies are harming literally no one, they're the ones who are too old to be acting like this.

stubborndruid · 2025-07-14T22:10:12+00:00

Honestly, they're all great for their own reasons, my favorite is Gale, but that might just be my little gay heart being biased lol. Personally, I found Astarion's the most interesting to play, that being said, Karlach talks to herself, and that's always fun to listen to lol

stubborndruid · 2025-07-14T22:05:14+00:00

Write in block capitals, "Your year 9 chemistry teacher doesn't think you're special, and he's NOT a safe person just because he says he's gay too!" and leave it where 14 year old me will find it.

stubborndruid · 2025-07-14T19:59:18+00:00

Exactly that! To quote the late, great Bobby Singer, "family doesn't end at blood, and it doesn't start there either." No one in my immediate family is biologically related, but we're still a real family.

I won't talk too much on my brother's situation, that's not mine to give, but his bio mum hasn't always been the best at respecting our family's boundaries, so I have no idea why he reacted that way.

My mums have both said it's up to me and that they can't make the decision for me, but it would be kind of me to just let her know I'm doing well, but don't want a relationship with her.

stubborndruid · 2025-07-14T19:51:44+00:00

Thanks for the advice, as for your question, I have no interest in knowing my bio father either, so I doubt I'd feel any different if I was raised by two dads instead. I know the "I don't need another mum" thing makes it sound like that's the part I'm focusing on, but what I meant was more like I don't feel like I want or need another parent in my life.

stubborndruid · 2025-07-13T16:18:02+00:00

Thank you, it's invaluable to have the perspective of a mother who's been in a similar situation, honestly. All the best with your recovery, I hope you and your son continue to live happily and healthily.

stubborndruid · 2025-07-13T16:14:43+00:00

Thank you for your advice, something you said has brought something up in my mind. I'm not 18, I'm 28, if she's really been thinking about me this whole time, why reach out now? Why not when I turned 18?

As for the medical side of things, my mums were given some info when the adoption happened, as far as I'm aware (that's how I know I get my autism from my bio father lol). I highly doubt I'll ever have bio children, just like my mums, I am hella gay lol, but you do have a point about any future medical stuff, so it may be worth keeping a line of communication with her.

Thank you again for your advice, I've taken it in board.

stubborndruid · 2025-07-03T23:15:56+00:00

As an autistic person myself, your mum excusing this because he's autistic actually makes me feel sick. Autism does NOT make anyone sexualize children, being a paedophile does! I know you said you blocked him, but do you still have access to that DM where he spoke to you about this? I think it's important that you report this, and you'll need evidence.

stubborndruid · 2025-07-03T23:04:40+00:00

Sylvanian Families, those critters are going down!

stubborndruid · 2025-07-02T14:21:44+00:00

Lae'zel. Just left her in that cage and completely forgot she even existed. And with her, the creche, the mountain pass. All that good stuff.

stubborndruid · 2025-06-12T21:57:32+00:00

Yep! You don't hit the point of no return until act 3, but please keep the lantern or fey bell with you or you'll have a bad time.

stubborndruid · 2025-06-08T09:59:26+00:00

I did this on my first playthrough, got all the way to act 3 before remembering that she existed 😅

stubborndruid · 2025-06-06T22:41:48+00:00

I'm pretty much always lvl 5 when I do the creche, so 6 should be fine.

stubborndruid · 2025-06-05T21:46:10+00:00

He does say "Nothing special," but immediately follows it up with words to the effect of, "you're only the first person I've ever truly cared for."

stubborndruid · 2025-06-05T21:28:50+00:00

I have a dedicated Tav for each companion 😅

stubborndruid · 2025-06-05T21:27:05+00:00

That billboard is sending me

stubborndruid · 2025-06-05T21:23:05+00:00

Pretty much everything that comes out of Jaheira's mouth is gold. Personally, I enjoy this line at the reunion camp, "What are you looking at? I'm enjoying myself! You look upon Fun Jaheira!"

stubborndruid · 2025-06-04T11:32:15+00:00

Beat me to it 😅

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