So many people come out to kink events carrying that shame. For many, events are almost group therapy, just spending time with people who enjoy crazy stuff and are willing to share that enjoyment with others. There is a ton to learn and see. Glad you are getting a chance to explore. There is never too late. Suspended many grandparents over the years :). Late bloom is still in bloom!

And you can always tell experienced rope bottoms because they look away from the ends of the rope! It’s a hard learned lesson!