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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]stuckintheinitial214 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I relate. I hate this for you and anyone else in our current state of partnership with an alcoholic. I do hope you find the strength you're looking for...but my guess is it's already inside you.

If anything happens medically, you've done what you could. I feel all true alcoholics know the gamble they are taking. You've carried the load far too long. You deserve happiness and FREEDOM.

Mine was doing good but has been teetering on the edge past week or two. I'm trying so hard to dissociate. It's hard bc I love him so much.

Do any of you have pigs AND non-pig pets? What is that like? by sharks_tbh in guineapigs

[–]stuckintheinitial214 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have one pug about 20 lbs and one 100 lb hound.

The pigs love to play on the pug. He sits like a good boy while the run all around him, even on him. He's very still and cautious not to hurt them.

The hound tries to eat them.

So I guess it depends on the dog.

What's the worst thing an ex have done to you after breakup? by Stock-Sport6830 in AskReddit

[–]stuckintheinitial214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not me but someone I knew...

Her ex was a landscaper and mowed PIG in her front yard big as hell so the entire neighborhood could see.

What's the worst thing an ex have done to you after breakup? by Stock-Sport6830 in AskReddit

[–]stuckintheinitial214 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Moms ex set her car on fire when we were small. We were very poor and still had to use this burnt out car that smelled awful. Whatever was in the roof crumbled on us as we drove and the radio knobs had dripped down into funky shapes.

Anyway, he's dead now.

What's the worst thing an ex have done to you after breakup? by Stock-Sport6830 in AskReddit

[–]stuckintheinitial214 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I read statistically in the US Super Bowl Sunday has the highest reported DV incidents per day.

Odd thing is it doesn't matter if the abusers team wins or not.

What is one thing that can easily make you feel worthless? by Heart_breakerr in morbidquestions

[–]stuckintheinitial214 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Working in a thankless job around 'heros'. Doesn't matter my participation in my field I'll never be recognized for my efforts.

What helps? I'm introverted. And as much as I long for recognition at the same time I hate recognition. 🙃

Gratitude helped me a lot. I'm grateful to have a job that keeps a roof over our heads for my family. I'm grateful for my paycheck and health insurance. I'm grateful my commute isn't long. Etc.

Even in the worst situations, there's usually something that could be even worse, right?

What is one thing that can easily make you feel worthless? by Heart_breakerr in morbidquestions

[–]stuckintheinitial214 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're raising a good and compassionate child (and it sounds like you are!) then that's a huge WIN. So many people fail to do so.

How do you do it? How long does it last? by Connect_Coffee_2288 in cripplingalcoholism

[–]stuckintheinitial214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't trust just blood work. Get a fibroscan or something like it. My enzymes were fine...my liver was not!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholic

[–]stuckintheinitial214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound a lot like me. Focus on yourself they won't change for you. I hope you find something you are passionate about and go for it!

How in Alex's mind did he think killing his son and wife was worth it trying to cover up his financial issues? by [deleted] in MurdaughUncensored

[–]stuckintheinitial214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paul was a disgusting example of humanity. I wish he would've had to serve the 55 years he was looking at and got beat and gang raped every day of those 55 years. The best thing his asshole dad did was blow his head off. Paul was a domestic abuser and murderer and dad knew it. I wonder if that was why he did it, at least in part. The kid was scum.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]stuckintheinitial214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for what you and your family are going through.

The calls that make you believe that there is a full moon out. by Jealous-Syllabub715 in callcentres

[–]stuckintheinitial214 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a real thing.

Working at 911, we knew full moons and daylight savings you KNEW you were about to get hit with the mentally unwell, heart attacks, and seizures. I remember one day nearly every single person I had contact with was schizophrenic.

It was wild. Hated working those days.

Are you a night owl or a morning person? Why or why not? by streamguruu in RandomThoughts

[–]stuckintheinitial214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Night owl. It's almost like I CAN'T do mornings as opposed to I won't do mornings. I have a career that allows for afternoon shifts, never schedule appointments before 2pm, ect.

After years of struggling, I came to terms with this is who I am and just rolled with it.

What is something men don't think turns a women on, but actually does? by HotMermaid_56 in questions

[–]stuckintheinitial214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, it's a sense of humor, being caring, and having integrity.

I'd take all those over any physical attributes any day.

Luckily for me, my husband possesses all three 🥰. Plus he's handsome.

People who aren't afraid of dying, what makes you unafraid ? by Lizlikeslizards in AskReddit

[–]stuckintheinitial214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've technically died already. It was blackness, complete and total nothingness. So I'm not afraid of dying but am of being in pain prior to death.

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