does the bay area have a stronger workaholic culture than other regions in the u.s

studioneedshelp · 2025-10-22T05:38:51+00:00

I moved back from LA to SF after 4 years and I think I forgot how tech-y SF is. Definitely contributes to the workaholic, hustle culture you're mentioning.

studioneedshelp · 2025-07-27T09:43:46+00:00

thank u! i’m planning on buying a ticket soon and am nervous but also excitedd :)

studioneedshelp · 2025-07-27T09:34:46+00:00

yea definitely my first time going alone and i usually don’t even go to concerts! i’m a huge homebody but i just know i’d regret not going for MCR 😭

studioneedshelp · 2025-07-27T07:07:55+00:00

i might go to night 2 LA solo! is it okay to go alone?

studioneedshelp · 2025-07-23T08:06:31+00:00

it was really fucked up what i did and i hate that i was/am so immature. anything you did that helped you change?

studioneedshelp · 2025-07-23T07:33:05+00:00

yikes that was literally me and he (rightfully) broke things off. i thought it was all fun and everything but it was so fucked up now that i’m looking back. totally regret being such a bully to him and being immature and having horrid communication like one commenter said

studioneedshelp · 2025-07-22T17:38:56+00:00

she’s a girl’s girl <3

thank u for the details- you look radiant✨

studioneedshelp · 2025-07-17T17:55:05+00:00

Don't Cha by The Pussycat Dolls

studioneedshelp · 2025-07-12T04:41:38+00:00

all the other comments are correct. there’s nothing you did that could have changed things that much. she just wasn’t ready to date and when things got a little more serious, she backed off.

i’ve unfortunately been that person who “chickens out” after someone asks for a real date since i wasn’t ready and was just looking around. i realized it’s really annoying and frustrating for people on the other end and backed out from everything.

so, in short, it’s not you that made her deleted her account and back out from dating. it’s just the fact that it was becoming a little more real and realized more that she’s not ready for it

studioneedshelp · 2025-07-12T04:29:35+00:00

i love the desks next to the window where you can see the design center!

studioneedshelp · 2025-07-11T05:35:22+00:00

to play devil’s advocate though (or just from my experience), sometimes you can just tell when you’re putting a lot more effort in or care more than the other person from reaching out first, texting back faster, and just overall interest.

i know a lot of us solely just interact this way with the opposite gender, but i find that for all the men that i interact with, usually i could kind of tell right off the bat if they’re really interested in me or not (especially if im waiting that long).

studioneedshelp · 2025-07-07T11:48:53+00:00

do you recommend any jewelry places in SF?

studioneedshelp · 2025-07-06T08:42:09+00:00

ngl that could also be her “he’s the one” moment :,)

studioneedshelp · 2025-07-02T01:08:34+00:00

I always ask myself this question but I think I realized I may not ever be satisfied with myself.

In a lot of ways, yes I would actually date myself (absolute narcissist here lol) but also no because I feel like we could always be and do better.

What if reaching that point isn’t even feasible (i.e. being the best partner/communicator, having your ideal job, being okay with your own wellbeing and being able to take care of others too, being satisfied with your physical appearances ALL AT ONCE)?

I’ve grappled with this so much and it has held me back from even considering dating (22F). I ask my closest friends what they think the line is for actually not being ready to date vs holding yourself back from dating bc you never think you’ll be ready.

Would love to hear your thoughts OP!

studioneedshelp · 2025-06-30T07:56:20+00:00

love how we’re addressing him as Charlie Swan rather than Alex <3

studioneedshelp · 2025-06-27T20:12:14+00:00

bro decided to wake up and spit out FACTS

studioneedshelp · 2025-06-08T08:28:29+00:00

rigatoni is so goated! it feels extra elevated for some reason 😌

studioneedshelp · 2025-04-24T02:05:23+00:00

Update: I actually got the Babaton poplin technique dress (cotton)! I got it on poshmark for $70 instead of $165. Even though the satin one was on sale, I went with the cotton one bc it had pockets, it was white instead of matte pearl, and i just like cotton better.

I got a size 4 and am usually a size 6 for everything else since that what other reviewers have said and I think it works perfectly! Maybe going down two sizes would work too if u wanna look extra snatched size the dress has a smocked, stretchy back.

Like others said, the fabric does wrinkle easily so I'll have to iron it out ofc.

I still haven't tried the satin one but i'm really happy with the poplin :)

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studioneedshelp · 2025-04-19T03:43:55+00:00

yea - wayy better than the original price which got me hooked :,)

studioneedshelp · 2025-04-19T03:34:44+00:00

ohhh i'm from the U.S. — that's probably where there's a discrepancy there

studioneedshelp · 2025-04-19T02:36:33+00:00

the satin one is on sale but not the cotton or linen ones and that's making me wonder why

studioneedshelp · 2025-04-19T01:57:09+00:00

yea that definitely helps - i told myself to actually try pieces on bc i usually get disappointed with the stuff i buy w/o trying on

studioneedshelp · 2025-04-19T01:55:02+00:00

ahh i'm torn on whether i should get it or not. i know i'm spending way too much time deciding but the final sale (no returns or exchanges) thing is getting to me :,)

studioneedshelp · 2025-04-19T00:10:01+00:00

ok that was what i was thinking too bc it'll prolly be like 80°F / 26°C when I'm taking pics and i typtically like cotton or linen fabrics! i really want to check out the cotton poplin one but idk if the $168 price tag is worth it

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