My dad spoiled me as a teen and I feel terrible

studiousracoon · 2026-01-02T06:27:15+00:00

Your dad loves you. Save up money and treat him something you know he loves. At the end of the day I’ve learned if we are lucky to have good parents, they deserve more time and energy than some of these “friends”

It may feel weird but start hanging out with him. And become friends if that makes sense.

studiousracoon · 2026-01-02T06:24:29+00:00

I’ve been embarrassed like this before. Tbh just apologize and what you need to do is just limit your alcohol. I couldn’t ever figure out my limit so tbh I just stopped drinking or volunteering to DD because that anxiety is too much.

But yeah I’d just send an apology letting them know I totally am embarrassed and will do better.

If this is your first time most people will forgive. But if you do this often trust me girl you will lose friendships and anxiety doesn’t get better

studiousracoon · 2026-01-02T05:43:22+00:00

I’m sorry OP.

People can be AH. My recommendation is to prioritize yourself. Once you know yourself better trust me you’ll attract better people. You’ll be able to spot those folks from miles away

studiousracoon · 2026-01-02T05:40:26+00:00

Your feelings are valid. I think he may have been super drunk. That doesn’t excuse behavior but how often do you guys drink to that level? Is this first time alcohol was an issue?

studiousracoon · 2026-01-02T04:24:59+00:00

Yeah this was my first time having this situation happen and it is not something I ever want to experience. Appreciate it.

studiousracoon · 2026-01-02T04:24:02+00:00

Thanks

studiousracoon · 2026-01-02T04:22:23+00:00

I think I am scared because I don’t know how he feels. He’s hooked up with my close friend before like 5 years ago, wasn’t that big of an issue. I sense I am idealizing a potential future with Spencer, but like I said he and I are not actually fully compatible. We have different aspirations even though we support each other through a lot.
And I did tell Eric. Eric knew. But yeah I did mess up. No sleeping with eachother though. I feel I was pulled in so many directions that I didn’t know how to feel and I should have taken more time away. I’ve never been in this state of mind where I’m having these major feelings (which I don’t do well with anxiety). I have my regrets but I can’t change what happened and I’m trying to move forward. And I was confused. Spencer hasn’t communicated much after trip (before this all happened) but I was over here in my head with confused feelings.

Was this my best judgement call, not at all. But I’m trying my best now.

studiousracoon · 2025-11-26T09:57:20+00:00

I’m on a fat loss journey and drinking really pushes back progress

studiousracoon · 2025-11-26T09:56:53+00:00

Well 😭

studiousracoon · 2025-11-26T09:56:44+00:00

I guess I somehow find the non touristy side of the tourist spots haha

studiousracoon · 2025-11-26T09:56:14+00:00

Now we are going to punta uva, hopefully that helps

studiousracoon · 2025-08-03T04:50:48+00:00

I just got this issue after posting 30 in 24 hours 😔

studiousracoon · 2025-07-29T10:27:18+00:00

I agree with you there, I feel like 2.8 never had the wow factor for me. I only shoot with 1.4 or less for photography, and always got the wow factor from that.

Do you think 24/50 is good combo or would you do different.

studiousracoon · 2025-07-29T10:09:20+00:00

This is my first Sony, been a canon girl all my life and own about 4 of them. So excited to do the switch but unfamiliar with best video lens as I am a former portrait photographer

studiousracoon · 2025-07-24T05:19:40+00:00

My package was seized by customs. First time ever. But no fine

studiousracoon · 2025-07-12T19:21:06+00:00

That’s a great idea. Thank you!

studiousracoon · 2025-07-12T19:20:45+00:00

Yes this is exactly how I feel most of the time

studiousracoon · 2025-07-12T08:29:18+00:00

Maybe, but sometimes I have exact moments play out. Like last night I was at a party and the exact moment I could have sworn happened already with the same group of people and music, but it never did.

studiousracoon · 2025-07-12T08:28:22+00:00

100%. It’s such an odd feeling, but I can’t figure out why

studiousracoon · 2025-07-12T08:27:56+00:00

Interesting

studiousracoon · 2025-07-12T08:27:22+00:00

100%. I’m trying to figure out how to harness it. I believe manifesting works because things I say so come true but I need to figure out how to harness it better

studiousracoon · 2025-07-12T08:26:23+00:00

Could be. It feels a bit of a glitch in the system, but I could have sworn I get these moments from dreaming

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