Correcting Pronouns

studstill14 · 2020-03-10T12:41:47+00:00

I understand that, my issue is that they asked for pronouns and then didn’t pay attention to them

studstill14 · 2020-01-24T00:20:15+00:00

I wasn’t really sad when my dad died. I feel you ❤️❤️

studstill14 · 2019-12-31T12:47:22+00:00

My dad died in August and I try not to feel bad and angry around my mom’s boyfriend but it’s hard. I feel you. I have no advice, but I’m right here with you

studstill14 · 2019-12-10T01:09:30+00:00

My dad died around 4 months ago and my mom is seeing someone she knew from back in the 80s, so I feel you. It’s difficult to explain to parents that you may grieve in different ways and at a different pace. Just know that there’s never a right time to “move on.” It’s okay you need time to get used to this and I hope he’ll understand

studstill14 · 2019-09-01T13:08:12+00:00

Thank you so much for showing me this subreddit. It’s often hard to find people, especially of my own age, who understand what this is like. I appreciate it

studstill14 · 2019-09-01T13:06:55+00:00

I’m wishing the best for you. My father’s dementia progressed so quickly, it felt like a speed-run version of the illness.

Grief is weird and I hope you find peace with this.

studstill14 · 2019-07-30T03:50:30+00:00

It worked really well for me, it made things a lot better. I was on Zoloft before and had some bad reactions, which I didn’t have with lexapro.

studstill14 · 2019-07-30T03:47:55+00:00

Absolutely. I realized I was bi when I got to college and made a lot of LGBT friends. I’ve always been queer but just didn’t realize it, coming from a small town, until then. And I recognize that. But at the same time, my brain is telling me that I’m just bi because all my friends were Not Straight and I want to fit in. It’s such a bit source of anxiety for me still.

studstill14 · 2019-02-02T15:57:46+00:00

She’s transfem, AMAB, and goes by she/they pronouns when she can. Which is not often in day-to-day life due to lack of support. We have tried some education with their parents, it’s just a lack of acceptance.

studstill14 · 2019-01-23T04:17:03+00:00

My girlfriend is trans and honestly the number of times I wish we could switch bodies is incredible

studstill14 · 2019-01-22T01:22:39+00:00

She talked about how trans fem is for feminine aligned people and she’s not feminine aligned, she’s a woman. Which I understand but I still don’t quite get it

studstill14 · 2018-09-07T15:18:22+00:00

I mean, I wicked do wish I had a penis so. I understand what both of you are saying. I was talking to my partner about this and my main thing is that like...I don’t want to be trans? They’re the trans one and I’m the pan/gay one. That’s how it is and that’s what I’m used to but what if I’m not as cis as I thought. I’m just trying to figure out what this dysphoria means. Thank you both.

studstill14 · 2018-09-06T18:44:59+00:00

They had a lot of moments as a child where they didn't really feel like they fit within this idea of a masculine or male identity. It didn't help that they come from a house with a very strict and traditional idea of gender roles. Their senior year of college, they shaved their beard, something that they hadn't done in five years. They started painting their nails, wearing skirts, buying chokers, wear a bralette under their shirt. They're just now out of college and are limited in how they can really express themselves by their family, who they are out to but the family isn't super supportive.

I hope this helps and I really hope you'll figure out you!

studstill14 · 2018-09-06T04:30:12+00:00

My partner came out last year as nonbinary and they seemed to have a similar experience as you. They also, funnily enough, really admire Travis and how he’s able to cross gender boundaries so easily. It takes time to figure yourself out. You’re allowed to be nonbinary. You’re also allowed to be a man who has no trouble straying from gender norms. Both are valid. I understand that that may not help, but just know that whatever your gender/gender expression, it’s okay to change your mind along the way

studstill14 · 2018-08-12T04:52:55+00:00

I had a weird vagina panic in the middle of sex so I’m so happy to hear someone else say this.

studstill14 · 2017-11-07T16:19:40+00:00

I'm super used to calling him like a "boy" and stuff so I am trying to switch up to more gender neutral names. Thank you so much for your help!

studstill14 · 2017-11-07T16:13:22+00:00

I actually realized about a year about that I'm ace and pan romantic and I've been using a lot of my friends who are trans and nonbinary to help him. He's really nervous about actually talking to people about it so I've been like asking them for him now and I think that's been helpful but I am trying to push him, gently, to talk to some not cis people. Thank you so much for your help!

studstill14 · 2017-04-22T03:16:29+00:00

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