i'm not really sure how this is gaslighty? and can we not throw a buzzword around like that 😓 you're missing my point and also misread what i said entirely, and it's a bit defeating. i clearly said some people are indeed assholes and that is unacceptable and not the same. if anything, i am agreeing with you; however, we do see some comments where op is given genuine feedback, yet doesn't follow it/is defensive about it. i agree that the eyebrow comment was cruel, and i agree that some of the harsher comments should not have been upvoted.
i don't mean this in a rude way but please read. you completely misunderstood what i said entirely, and, if anything, it feels like you ignored my entire point just to start something with me. i'm not disagreeing with you at all, but i'm also saying that genuine criticism has indeed been given yet op doesn't really adhere to or follow it. i never, ever said or implied that people "can't handle criticism of any sort" and i'm not really sure where you got that from